What I mean is some guys go for 3min., 10min,1hr,2hr,ect.....
does this just come natural for ya'll?
I dont mean stopping for a few minutes just to last longer either.
2007-03-27 18:38:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Yes we can.
I tend to focus on pleasuring her so much that it is easy to prolong until she has an orgasm first.
So, it really depends on what kind of mood she is in because it could take her 10 minutes or a super long time.
If i focus on her, then what comes around goes around and that means more booty for me!! a win win situation.
2007-03-29 11:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by scott in minnesota 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To an extent a guy can control it. Personally (and I am not gloating... like it would do me a damn good on the internet) I actually try to make it quicker than usual. My girlfriend and I aim for about 20 minutes... although I could probably go for 45 or 60 minutes any time... I've lasted about 2 hours a couple of times... but most girls don't enjoy that. The best thing to do if it's not long enough is spend more time on foreplay, and try changing positions. Some positions will make you climax faster and/or make him last longer. Using a condom will prolong is also (if he doesn't already). Just remember that longer is not always better... sex can actually get pretty uncomfortable for some women after 30 or 40 minutes.
2007-03-27 18:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by Wildernessguy 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not really control. No, there are way too many variables involved for control....... for example, sometimes your mind is on something else, even if the offer is "once in a lifetime" your mind is not on it, other times, your partner for whatever reason just doesn't get you there and you could go for days, or go limp trying.... sometimes you are just so horny the sight of a bare armpit could get you off and wham... it's all over in a few seconds or so. Sometimes your life long partner does something unexpected that really feels good and pop... it's over when you least expect so. Some times you just want it to end and wish you were somewhere else, picking you rnose or whatever... Sometimes you wish it hadn't ended so soon, and sometimes you back up for another round... it's all a mystery why.... and all of it "all but completely out of control".
I could imagine that men have been trying to control how long it lasts before he orgasms for as long as people have been having sex.. all with varying degrees of success... until one of those little variables get in the way.... that is one reason why having sex is so much more fun with a partner than going solo!
2007-03-27 18:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by Icy Gazpacho 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lasting longer comes (pardon the pun) with experience and being more comfortable with a woman. As mentioned already younger guys may be more nervous and prone to premature ejaculation.
There are also exercises that can help prolong the time until ejaculation. A guy can learn to control the urge and hold back until the appropriate time, but its takes some practice. A woman can also assist her partner by performing a squeezing technique. As her partner nears ejaculating, the woman firmly but gently applies pressure to the underside of the glans (head of the penis) using her thumb and her index finger resting on the rim. After about 30 seconds the urge to ejaculate will subside and then sex can resume. This can be repeated several times. During this time the guy can busy himself pleasing you.
2007-03-27 19:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think with practice, most guys would be good for 10 - 20 minutes. But not with a new partner, the excitment is too high.
You are really asking two questions here. For an hour or more the question is does he have the stamina, not can he control the end.
2007-03-27 18:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by Nort 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes they can but it takes practice and the younger they are the less they care about that. They just want to do the deed and do it now! There are also things you can do to help him last longer. Don't you watch Sue Johannson! LOL
2007-03-27 19:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by MissWong 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a guy, but friends with lots. They have to pleasure themselves earlier that day to prolong it the second time around. The first time, especially younger guys, that day tends to be quicker.
Okay, this is things they have TOLD me! Not from MY personal experience!! LOL
2007-03-27 18:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by The Canadian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a guy can control how long he has sex. In fact there is a whole discipline for both women and men called tantric yoga for slowing down how long one has sex. It does take practice
2007-03-27 18:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by 12dozen 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yeah it takes practise I'm down 2 5 seconds! Jump on and jump off
2007-03-28 15:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well it depends on how much control the guy has over his sex drive , i mean yea some guys are liek 2 mins and then done its all in der head they need to control it!
2007-03-27 18:42:15 · answer #10 · answered by sickskillz883 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋