I feel like I've been mean to other ppl like giving rumors, and judging ppl 4 wat they should and shouldn't do....its starting to be a habit AND I CAN'T CONTROL MYSELF!!!WHAT SHOULD I DO!!??
2007-03-27 17:54:19 · 10 answers · asked by ~Julia~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I only do mean stuff when i am really angry.
2007-03-27 17:56:30 · update #1
I DON'T TAKE SPECIAL ED CLASSES!!!im an honor roll student and a bbelt in tkd.Don't think im that dumb.
2007-03-27 18:15:49 · update #2
Professional help is good....but if you're a Christian the best thing to do is pray about it.
Good for you, that you care. And good for you too,that you can be honest about your shortcomings. It is a rare thing, and a valuable one for people who want to be of good character.
2007-04-04 16:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging people is something that everyone does - even if it is just to decide who they want to hang out with and who they don't want to hang out with. I think what you're talking about is realizing that you are doing that judging constantly - about everything. I sometimes feel like that too and I have to reach for some philosophy that says 'Be and Let be' and think about that for awhile. If you are a critical person, that is just the way you are - some professions are ideal for critical people because they use that critical skill all the time. Maybe you can find a direction in life that uses your criticial attitude!
2007-04-02 10:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are aware that these things you do are not right, why don't you just stop doing those and try to mind your own business. Only you can control everything you say and do, so stop your bad habits right now.
2007-03-28 01:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by Belen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I was right there with you a few years ago. It's something that will not happen overnight; it's a process. Keep track of what comes out of your mouth or what you think, and when it comes up, stop yourself. Over time it will naturally happen and it will be gone.
2007-03-28 01:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by eternalblueyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to calm yourself when your angry and think about if that's what they did to you like if they started a rumor on you how upset you will be every time when you wanna tell a rumor think about like i just said like if that rumor im going to say is about me hope u get rid of it
2007-03-28 01:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and quit gossiping. Just make it a rule that you wont talk about people when they are not involved in the conversation physically.
2007-04-04 18:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by ♥mybabyboy♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont ger inferior..these are behaviour of mostly all short tempered persons....
So the only idea is try to be patient.....
and make judgement after adjudging you in that situation....
it will help you not giving rumors and can get off that habit..........
2007-03-28 01:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by riya r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop acting like this seek proffessional help coz if you dont you will end up lonely with no friends and no self respect.
2007-03-28 00:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read the bible and find god only through him can you stop the devils influence over you
2007-04-04 19:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by drackoseifert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let yourself... your born with it... what can people do if your born with it?!?
2007-04-04 07:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by cute_kuxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋