Okay everyone. I have SOME problems in school. Well basically almost everyone makes fun of me. Like everything; every little thing. Like my weight tallness(5”9), hair, looks everything you can think of!!!!
There’s this one kid name Arthur(grrrrr!!!!). He calls me gothic cuz I luv punk/rock music, sometimes heavy, black, black nails. Red sometimes I draw gothic pictures, wut I wear. i'm sick of it!!!! My father always says: “ignore them & they’ll leave u alone”.
I try that one day& I still cant do it. Sometimes I feel useless,helpless, & weak. I always think bad thoughts about me dying or listen to rock music(heavy); drawing bad pictures when im like this. Wut should I do?!!!!!
2007-03-27 17:51:38 · 7 answers · asked by i_am2_punkrock4this 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
punch the douche in the face
2007-03-30 20:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by LoVeLY LaURa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are portraying their insecurities on you. What keeps them going is that they get a reaction out of you. It is possible they find something in common, which is picking on you. The only way they make them self fit in is singling you out as different, making them feel they are not. (it sucks) Really it is best to take yourself out of their equation.
Don't care what they think or do. Show you don't have time for it, (because you don't). They are weaker than you, they probably couldn't handle what they put you through.
Find an outlet, get to know yourself and why it it is easy for people to pick on you. Look up, Girls Today Women Tomorrow, find a program like that in your area. It will help you get a barring on yourself and your situation.
Do not take their taunting personal, if they sense you want their attention, but can boost them self by hurting you. They do it because they can tell, you will let them hurt you. Not because of who you are.
If people in your life, Parents, siblings, Friends, or strangers disrespect you, tell you your wrong or put you down.
Do you make an excuse for them, saying they didn't mean it that way, they just want to help you, etc.?
People can sense that behavior and will take advantage. Talk to a counselor or parent. It is a learned behavior for many. It doesn't make you bad or stupid it is just a way you learned to deal with situation. And is completely changeable.
Be strong! Their is nothing bad about you, only the stupid weak people around you.
2007-03-28 01:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by mjoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flaunt your differences! You are tall, and may be 'thin' or 'fat' ... because you are a 'punk' or 'goth' it really doesn't matter. Go ahead and 'draw your pictures' and be WHO YOU ARE ... if you show that you LIKE WHO YOU ARE and aren't 'thrown off' when other people make 'fun' of you, they'll start to 'leave you alone' ...
WHATEVER YOU DO, you may NOT EVER 'try to kill yourself' ... because just because you are 'different now' that doesn't mean that you are 'different' to EVERYONE, and someday there will be someone (even several someones) out there who will REALLY NEED YOU to tell them the same things I'm telling you now. You need to 'be alive' to be 'their friend' my dear ... and you are already 'my friend' even though I don't 'really know you' ... just because you are 'different'...
2007-03-28 01:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only advice that I can give you is to simply say, "Grow Up", and walk away. People who bully and make fun of others have issues going on in their own lives and to take their attention away from their problems, they focus on you and whats different. People are scared of different. Different is one of the best things in the world, so shake the haters, be you and love yourself.
2007-03-28 01:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by eternalblueyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them tease and just don't care, believe in u , u r what u r and you should be proud of it SAY " rock music has been created to listen and that's what i do, this dress was in the shop to be worn by someone and that is what i am doing i am not like u to do what others do and follow the trends "
make yr own trends and be proud of whatever ur doing
2007-03-28 01:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by pragya s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are, and always will be what you think of yourself. So, learn to love yourself, to accept yourself as you are, without judgment. If you can't love yourself, how can you expect others to love you. So begin with yourself. If you can accept yourself, you will find others will also accept you. And, if you accept yourself, as you are, then you will find what your father says is correct...those who ignore you will have no meaning for you...after all, they fail to see your beauty, brains, personality and overall greatness. Remember, you are truly great and wonderful. Celebrate yourself for the wonderful person you are. And enjoy life every day. There's so much to enjoy.
2007-03-28 00:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you r teachers about them teasingyou... and continue to ignore them. sooner or later they will get sick of tesing yiou. and dont think about dying coz your better than that.
2007-03-28 01:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋