my friend just got a bf for the first time and i feel very left out. the only time we r around each other hes there. we never talk and when we do guess whos right there!!!! i cant stand her bf!! is that so horible? i dont want to make her feel that she has to chose but i just can take it ne more!! this probally makes no sence but i cant even think nemore!! does ne1 have me advice for me!! i really need help!!!
2007-03-27 17:35:17 · 2 answers · asked by Proud Mommy to Rowdy!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I've been through the same thing in my younger days, and it was difficult for me to understand and accept that my friend preferred to spend time with her boyfriend than with me or with her female friends.
It would be nice if your girl friend understood that you may be feeling left out and made some time to go out with you (like a girl's night out), but if she isn't being thoughtful, then there's really no choice but to try and understand that she's enjoying her time with her boyfriend.
2007-03-27 17:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by Strawberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to tell you , but all too often, boyfriends win in the game of life over girl friends .. Unless you have a really tight friendship..
I don't know how old you are .. but, not liking him, won't win you points with her either..
sounds like there is some jealousy here too. Be happy for your friend.. If he's not right for her, she needs to discover on her own. telling her he isn't will more than likely anger her, and to tell her to chose you might not like to hear the answer you get... so be careful..
good luck!
2007-03-27 17:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by miladyfaire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋