what did u learn from it? and did you try to avoid some people/people avoid you for doing it?
2007-03-27 17:19:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Divorced my husband after having an affiar. I learned that infactuation isnt worth tearing your family apart.
2007-03-27 17:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Keli 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the entire world wide web could not contain all the things i am ashamed of.
years ago a girl asked me to make love to her. i said what ? and she said never mind . i got laid that night but it was a different girl. why was i ashamed of that because she was hot and other guys learnt of it later. none new i didn't have sex with her because i had too much respect for her . we were young teens 18 i think she was 17 something like that .
now i am pleased i did what i did . same thing with a married women who had me over to her house for sex clearly stated that was what it was for . she had told me she and her husband no longer lived together and she hated the guy . well when i saw her house with all the pics of her and the husband all over i thought this seems odd then i had to pee and found the seat up . at that point i said no to sex with her as it sure seemed she was still with the husband and that he was living there still . back then never told people about it but friends found out i let her be . none said good for you . but i did say good for me and still do.
however again shame lists i could make would overload the www.
2007-03-28 01:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably shouldn't mention any of them, this is not confession you know. But I have learned plenty from my f**k ups. I've learned to have no shame. I am never afraid to show my face around people that would make for awkward situations. If anybody has a problem with me, I am always more than happy to defend myself both verbally and physically. Usually people are good sports. I refuse to live my life with regret. Everybody has the right to pursue their goals in life, even after making a few mistakes.
2007-03-28 00:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by Glen R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I ate alot at the buffett today. Usually on the way there, it is as if it is no big deal. After walking out barely able to maneuver, it then feels like a huge mistake. I was ashamed of myself when I left the place for eating everything in site. Now I am hungry again.
2007-03-28 00:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by Skillet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to be ashamed of a lot of things till I realized that the universe places these situations in our lives so that we can learn from them.
Now I realize that these so-called mistakes are simply opportunities that we are given to choose again, hopefully in a more positive way.
When small children are learning to walk we don't punish them or try to make them guilty when they fall down. We just rejoice and clap for them when they finally succeed.
When did we change so much that we no longer deserve to be treated this way?
Personally I don't think it ever happened.
love and blessings Don
2007-03-28 09:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on my husband. He loves me so very much and I cheated on him. I told him about it immediately, and we cried together. He left the house for a day, came back and decided to give me another chance. It took this whole terrible ordeal for me to realize that I really do love him. He is and always has been a great man. That was never the issue. I was selfish and worried only about myself. I have learned from my mistake and we are still married and have been going strong ever since. I will regret hurting him for the rest of my life.
2007-03-28 00:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by saving.babies 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tryed to get to know a girl over myspace and aim stupidly, then makeing myself look a stalker somehow? now she ignores me and avoids me for the most part. She knows who i am and sees me around a lot, but I didn't have the nerve to talk to her in person. I learned to not EVER try to get to know a girl over the internet again ESPECIALLY since i'm a guy.
2007-03-28 00:32:32 · answer #7 · answered by bonto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have regrets that haunt me everyday and i am ashamed of some things but i learn to get over them. i learn that things happen and that there is noting in this world that can be so bad that it means suicide of unforgiveness. people make mistakes thats what we do we were made to make mistakes and we were made to not be perfect but to **** up. i avoid people still to this day. but i think its all for stupid reasons nothing is taht serious unless its murder, rape, or child abuse.
2007-03-28 00:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are things that im so ashamed that id rather not think or talk about it. I leared from it and tried to avoid those mistakes and try to be a better person.
2007-03-28 00:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I've done so many things that if my mom and dad hear about them they will likely be full of disgust e.g watching porn (though I did it once). I feel so bad at the moment I'm giving this answer but I know I'm not the only victim. I know also that God has forgiven me and everything is under control.
2007-03-28 02:33:03 · answer #10 · answered by talleymark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Developed an eating disorder. Learned that people love me even though I am imperfect, and that I don't look good at anything less than 135 lbs.
2007-03-28 00:30:44 · answer #11 · answered by Cybele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋