My friend ditched us to hang out with 'popular people' and now she's back because the people she was hanging out with was mean to her. On her first day back with us she slapped us. My other friends don't want her back but they're not gonna say anything. What should I do?
2007-03-27 16:52:05 · 9 answers · asked by juby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If your friend is sincerely sorry and aplogized and you had fun with her take her back but........... tell her how that made you feel (in a nice way) she may have had a weak moment and is probably insecure with herself and just wants to be accepted. I don't know anyone who hasn't tried to be with the "in crowd" or wanted to be at least once. Try talking to your friends about giving it another go. If this doesn't work and you still want to be friends then you may have to do things with her on your own. It's tough being caught in the middle sometimes.
2007-03-27 17:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by go2girl117 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she just hangs out with other popular friends,just bcause she wants some kind of attention,and the advantage of their popularity.
But then they didn't give her that importence ,so she is back with you guys.
Well she was very bad in slapping one of your friends.
But I think you should talk to your friends first,that they should give her a second chance,that OK she might have did it intentionally, and that you must not leave her alone.
And then you must go to this girl ,and tell her that you guys didn't like her attitude,and that you are giving her a second chance,and if she repeats this, you won't ever accept her in your group.
2007-03-27 17:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by vv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she ditched you for people who don't like her and then came back and slapped you or us. not clear on that. you shouldn't have to ask questions about this. Its time to give her the cold shoulder . That doesn't sound like a true friend to me. And don't ever let anyone get away with putting their hands on you. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself.
2007-03-27 17:04:58 · answer #3 · answered by bigboi-88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her, and tell her why you're mad at her. Maybe she tried to go that route, and realized that she missed you guys. Also, ask her why she slapped you all. I think she has some underlying anger inside of her. Maybe she wants to be your friend because she thinks she can trust her. I think you should forgive her, if she is really sorry for what she did.
2007-03-27 17:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a true friend, a true friend would'nt leave you to hand out with someone else, clearly it sounds like she wasn't accepted by these people so she falls back on u guys as a second choice. She aks dumb around u guys so why should u let her disrespect u guys like that. Leave her, she's not a friend.
2007-03-27 17:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by grissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she ditched u and stuff it dose not seem like she is that good of a friend, but if she dose it again and she wants to hang out wif you just say: ohhhh what happened to ur OTHER FRIENDS that u ditched me for??
2007-03-27 17:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by *-*Nikki*-* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get lost then.......... who the hell does she think she is........... if you and your other friends stay together there shouldnt be a problem standing up to her. just tell her she is not welcome in your group anymore and tell the teacher she slapped you......this is not right for her to do this.
2007-03-27 17:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No lose her as a friend ASAP
2007-03-27 17:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by wilo_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is always good to forgive. If you don't forgive then don't expect someone else to forgive you.
2007-03-27 17:16:34 · answer #9 · answered by nana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋