So a few days ago me and this girl I reallllly like had this big drama thing going and suffice it to say I asked her out and she just wanted to be friends. But when I say wanted to be friends, I wasn't talking about normal I just want to be friends that guys and girls normally do to say "I'm not interested, leave me alone". Like we were getting to be good friends before and now we hang out like everyday lol. When we're alone or around others its great and we have fun and its playful and normal. But she doesn't want to do some things like go see a movie my friend and her friend (who are dating) want to check out but its more of a chick flick and it would be just the 4 of us, which is understandable, she doesn't want to hang out with the four of us to just hang out, we always need to be doing something or going somewhere. She seems uncomforable depending on what we do as a group and its understandable because some times I feel like that, but how can i make her more comfortable around me?
2007-03-27 16:48:03 · 2 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Just because she doesn't smack you down as you expected her to, doesn't mean that you two are on the road to romance. I'm very playful and kind of flirtatious with my guy friends, especially the ones I have no interest in. I think she wants to be your friend, enjoys your company, but isn't attracted to you (and you aren't going to change that).
2007-03-27 17:01:43 · answer #1 · answered by Cybele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she obviously JUST wants to be friends and doesnt want to get into any situations such as double-dates that would look like shes leading you on/more interested when she still JUST wants to be friends!
2007-03-27 16:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by tapeface88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋