Can it work?

Question

I am a Cancer and my boyfriend is a Gemini. We've been together for about 3 years, but it seems we always run into the same problems. I've researched our compatibility a lot, but I was just wondering if someone know something I don't. Are we fighting a loosing battle, or do we just need to keep trying?

I'm not asking those of you who don't believe in Astrology to critic the question. That's fine if you don't believe, but there's no need in answering a question that you more than likely don't know too much about.

Answer 1

Gemini With Cancer:
The homebody, introverted cancer may find club loving, outgoing Gemini way too hard to get for a good mate. While Gemini is constantly on the alert for changes and something new, Cancer is satisfied to become a truly domesticated mate, and ruts don't scare them. On the other hand, the cancerean moodiness may become too much for Gemini to cope with. There would be better compatibility where the female is a Gemini and the male is a Cancer, especially if there are several children to keep the Gemini mother's time occupied. Cancers are driven by emotion and feelings and generally prefer the constant. Gemini's unstoppable movement will prove unsettling to Cancer.

I think you are fighting a loosing battle

CANCER is compatible with Scorpio, Pisces, Taurus and Virgo.

Emotions tend to play a dominate role in the lives of people born under Cancer. Naturally defensive and sometimes afraid of being hurt, they tend to put their heart and soul into all their relationships, and are very faithful, loyal and loving partners.

Cancer people are extremely sensitive to matters of the heart. It is easy to hurt their feelings and come become deeply emotionally wounded when wronged, and can take a long time getting over it.

Best Match For Cancer Is Taurus
This is an excellent match and you will find it hard to tear yourselves away from one another! Stay clear of getting too wrapped up in one another though...

Worst Match For Cancer is Aries
Hardly a match made in heaven Aries and Cancer tend to clash. Do not despair if you are in one of these relationships, true love will overcome. Both Aries and cancer are powerful and very self expressive. However, Cancer can be sensitive and somewhat anxious while Aries people are dominant and spontaneous. Aries is not the greatest at expressing their feelings. This leads to the constant annoyance of the moody, retrospective Cancer.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 2

GEMINI AND CANCER Passionate Cancer fulfills Gemini's physical needs, and Gemini's cheerfulness brightens Cancer's disposition. But all too soon Gemini's tendency to play at love wounds oversensitive Cancer. Flirtatious Gemini makes Cancer feel very insecure and an affair is likely to be volatile. These two have too little in common for a long term relationship. Cancer needs security and domesticity; Gemini loathes being tied down. Gemini hasn't any patience with Cancer's moodiness, and Gemini's sharp tongue is too biting for Cancer's fragile ego. They are doomed to a downhill run.

Answer 3

I would spend a little less time trying to figure out what some writer for a newspaper or website thinks about all cancers and all geminis and try to figure out a little more about myself and the other person. if you have to rely on advice from people that wouldn't even recognize you thats pretty sad. i think astrology is cool and i look up my horoscopes and compatibility and all that stuff but I rarely take anything they say to heart. even the "personalized" stuff isn't much more helpful. like i said earlier don't worry about the horoscopes. stop reading em for awhile and go with your gut. And remember all couples have problems. Sometimes its little stuff and sometimes its big stuff learn to identify and deal with them.

Oh and look what section horoscopes is in....entertainment and music!!! Is that something you want to run your life by? You listen to a comedian and take his jokes for real and do what your favortie music says? I doubt it

Answer 4

I can tell you that astrology has nothing to do with it, because there are millions of cancer-gemini couples that don't experience the same problems at all.

Keep trying.

Answer 5

im a cancer too and from experience I'll tell u that u will definately get along best with scorpios and pisces. all of the gemini boys that i have known always seemed to be the biggest liars.

Answer 6

Zodiac signs and its interpretations are mere speculations. It has nothing to do on how your life would be. We have all the freedom to choose what we wanted to do in our life with some limitations. The key to a good relationship is self respect. If you respect yourself, you will also understand the need of others, just like you has its own mood, strenght weaknesses and fears. .

Answer 7

You're fighting a losing battle, you've tried long enough move on to a Taurus or Scorpio.

Answer 8

I don't think you should rely on the zodiac signs to see if you're compatible. What are the issues that you argue about? If they are important ones and you argue frequently about them, then maybe you guys aren't meant to be together.

Answer 9

this is a weird combi cos i haven't come across a match like this before.........gemini is the air sign thus blah blah (u shud noe ur personality) .....u shud ask ur bf whether there are still feelings for each other, instead of doing wadeva useless research...

Answer 10

both are facing same problem that means you both are with each other since last 7 birth, now you hav to keep wera same colore cloth what your boy friend waere that will healps you to come up with your problem

you are really good lovers,

good luck,