I've never raised my voice or yelled at somebody in my whole life. Is that bad?

Question

So i guess i'm not good at expressing my anger... because I do get angry sometimes. But I've never yelled, raised my voice, even in private I've never done anything. Do I need to see a psychologist or something because I dont think this is good for me.

Answer 1

It's wonderful that you don't raise your voice! A person doesn't have to yell or holler obscentities in order to express anger. I wish more people were like you as long as you recognize that you're angry, express it & resolve it. I would say that you would only need a therapist if you ignore the anger or hold it in. If you don't often get angry, then you are pretty laid back & there's nothing wrong with that!

Answer 2

i am very similar to you people describe me as timid... i can barley yell at people and usually when im talking to someone i never tell them what i want i just kind of whisper it in a low tone with my eyes to the floor, i am also REALLY nice, you seem to be real nice too, if you think this is abnormal then i think you should probably talk to a doctor if you think your fine then id say your fine, just try yelling at somebody if you cant the i think you have a problem, try yelling at someone as a joke like make a scenario with you yelling at the other person for any reason... maybe your shy and you just cant do things that are loud because of your self esteem. do you have high self esteem? if you do and you still cant yell at people then maybe something is wrong.

Answer 3

I would see someone only because you have to have some type of outlet for your anger at people. You don't have to go around screaming at everyone that says hello to you, but if you get angry and you have every right to, you gotta let it be known to them and sometimes it really helps just to cuss someone out up and down (ask my bf he has to deal with me! : )
Or start out practicing at the people you are close to and let them know whats up first. But yeah my advise would be to see a counselor, not a psychiatrist or psychologist, they just cost more and you get the same result.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!

Answer 4

First of all, I really admire you! I can't believe you've never yelled!
Anyway, I don't think it is bad, because you have probably come up with some other way to deal with your anger that is not as common as yelling. If you haven't, then I think you might have problems.

Answer 5

i am soft spoken like you, an very patient so i never yell. but i have in fact yelled at a couple BFs before lol, but only a few times an i was extremly mad to do it, i wish i could just yell sometimes, but actions speak louder then words an thats pretty much how i am i guess

Answer 6

I hope it isnt bad because I dont ever raise my voice or yell at anyone either. Only problem is, people like us hold everything in which I dont think is very healthy.

Answer 7

There is no reason to waste your money on a shrink. Here is all you need to have the ability to raise your voice. First you need kids. Then you need an ex-wife. Trust me ,you will learn real quick how to raise your voice.

Answer 8

I don't think you need to see a psychologist but I think you need to learn to at least talk back to someone and get mad sometimes. If you don't you are more likely to explode at someone and either hurt yourself or someone else. Or even worse someone could do something to you for exploding on them.

Answer 9

you just never been pushed enough or you just have a different way of expressing anger like mixing sulfuric acid in someones juice maybe?

Answer 10

That can be good and bad but sometimes you just need to be heard