okay so i want to give my guy a lap dance...what advice/pointers can you give me?? be specific...and i'm underage so i cant go into a strip club or i would be there...
2007-03-27 16:21:14 · 5 answers · asked by kissesfromhvn807 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
Hmm. Let's see...how underage are you? If you can't get into an adult club where they do adult things, should you really be doing those adult things yourself?
There is no secret to lap dancing. Pole-dancing and dancing on-stage is considerably more difficult, but when you're giving a lap dance, you pretty much grind on the guy. You wear tiny underwear and just pretty much grind dance like you're on the dance floor, but with him sitting, obviously.
It's a lot of hip gyrating, and booty-popping. I have no idea how specific you want to get, but pretty much you have to have these moves already. So if you don't, practice. Arch your body in such a way that your behind is in his view. You have to do what makes you feel sexy. It's like sex without the actual penetration. Imitating sexual positions is also a plus. Also, topless helps a lot.
Guys aren't very hard to please visually. In fact, I don't really know if giving your own boyfriend a lap dance is the best thing. One reason guys like strippers is because they know they can't have them and they're different people from their girlfriends. It's like a tease thing, a fantasy.
If you want to please your man, just put out I guess.
2007-03-27 16:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by Android 18 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you would like to learn to dance exotically another suggestion is belly dancing. I suggest this as there are classes for all ages and there are similar moves in belly dancing (not the same but we do a lot of hip moves). Depending on what school of dance you choose I guess will depend what you specifically learn, but I have been to a few and have a learnt a combination of technical work as well as choreography. It is also really fun. So that might still give you the physical skills and ideas that you might be looking for.
2007-03-27 17:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
guys are so stupid and horny it almost doesn't matter what you do so long as you saturate his senses of sight and touch, but if you want to be an overachiever go ahead and reach for smell taste and sound in some creative way, but he probably won't appreciate the latter three quite as much as the two prior
2007-03-27 16:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by shabushabu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you're married.
2007-03-27 16:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ahke ur butt in his face and get ontop of him arouse him he will love it
2007-03-27 19:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋