2007-03-27 16:11:50 · 13 answers · asked by friends4ever79 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't.....didn't marry someone with huge differences in our personalities (did that the first time)
2007-03-27 16:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Basically you choose to love each other no matter what and for who they are not what they are. Differences in personalities can be a good thing and a plus if you want it to be. You can make the most of it and have fun with it and learn to compromise when you need to. Accept each other for their personality and do not try to change them. They say that opposites attract:)
2007-03-27 16:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our differences in personalities are what draws us to the
other person initially. But in the long run, the more we have
in common together is what will keep us living in harmony.
When we can't see eye to eye on anything it can be a living
nightmare. They say opposites attract but usually don't make
good relationships. Of course we must learn to accept the
other person for being who they are and they have to do the
same.
2007-03-27 16:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by messenger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Advice: Talk it out Be empathetic and receptive to the other persons needs. Attend marriage communication classes or other counseling if you need.
My grandfather advice, who has been married more than 60 years. " Marry a person you like, because you could be married an extremely long time."
2007-03-27 16:19:46 · answer #4 · answered by Philatellic I.Y.C. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just enjoy the differences.
you can't find perfect match in the entire world! so you need to learn to accept those differences.
if you really love that person, you will actually enjoy watching his/her reactions because they are so different from yours.
communication is the key!
stop looking at it in negative way, look at things in positive way and your problem will be solved.
it's not like your partner is cheating or anything... it's just personality difference. that's what make him/her unique just like how unique you are.
I've had hard time with my partner for 4 years because I thought we were so different, but after 4 years, I learned to accept those differrences and now I enjoy it.... good luck with you and smile...
2007-03-27 16:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll presume you learned of these differences after the fact of marriage. Seeing them now and also presuming they cause problems between you both, I'd leave and chalk it up to experience. You can keep the good memories but you need not torture yourself over the bad ones.
2007-03-27 16:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hopefully these differences will have been dealt with
before the marriage...
This is the purpose of dating & engagement....
2007-03-27 16:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same way you dealt with it as a couple one step at a time
2007-03-27 16:16:31 · answer #8 · answered by catherine marcrum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well its kinda like water and electricity. ones weakness may be the others strongpoint. or better yet opposites do attract, as strange as that may sound
2007-03-27 16:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by pisof49 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you have gotten married in the first place if that was a problem. common sense.
2007-03-27 16:14:26 · answer #10 · answered by Christ Love 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋