My husband and I just got finished arguing and now he is in our room and I am in the living room. We are not talking and I want to make up cause I do not want to be mad! It was like we were playing fighting and he got serious. LADIES: PLEASE GIVE YOUR BEST AND FREAKEST ADVICE!!!!!!!!! MEN: PLEASE LET ME KNOW IF IT WAS YOU WHAT WOULD YOU DO OR BE WAITING ON??????????????
2007-03-27 16:08:14 · 22 answers · asked by Mrs.Tricey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
easy enough...just go tell him you are sorry, while giving him a hug and kissing his ear and neck ...(not freaky, but it should do the trick)
2007-03-27 16:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all you need to apologize, even if you were not in the wrong, then give him a kiss, tell him you love him and give him a hug. But be sincere when doing it and let him know that it isn't a big deal and you would like to call a truce...then if not in the mood now, later create the mood for make-up sex. your relationship is worth a lot more to both of you, I'm sure then determining whose right or wrong and getting into another argument...never go to bed mad at eachother. Hope this helps!
2007-03-27 23:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, hey hun, this playful arguing got out of hand and I am sorry I said something that hurt you. I want to apologize because it wasn't my intention for this to get really serious. Then tell him when he is ready to talk to you about it, you will be waiting (you have to give him time to cool down). Then, if or even if he doesn't talk about it, just accept that as a truce and be there waiting in the nude when he comes around and get to making up.
2007-03-27 23:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by Tabatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not giving much detail about WHY or What you were arguing about. But in situations like these, I laways found it helpful to write down my feelings in a brief letter. If he doesn't want to listen to you this is probably the best way. it will give him time to blow off some steam and give you time to perhaps, realize why he got so angry. Try to put yourself in HIS shoes first then try to tel him why you feel it's so silly to be arguing in the first place (since it startied out playfully). Also remember: There's a bit of truth in every joke or stint of palyful needling-but remind him that it was all in fun and the intention was not to hurt his feelings. Then on to the make up sex!
2007-03-27 23:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by court 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say dont be stubborn. If it was something really not worth fighting about, apologize. It sux to be the first to do it but if he's a real man he'll apologize too. There are to many young couples getting seperated or divorced over stupid stuff.
Just kiss and make up.
Trust me, my husband and I used to get into stupid little spats, and this always worked.
Making up is way funner than fighting.
Good Luck!!!
2007-03-27 23:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by That Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go in the room and say "honey I'm sorry our argument got out of control, can we just make up?" it make him think you are apologizing for what ever it is he feels you should apologize for and it stops the fighting so you can start the making up. It works every time. Before going to sleep say I love being your wife.
2007-03-27 23:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go into the bedroom and apologise. Let him know that you thought you were just playing around and you didnt mean for it to turn into a serious fight. I always have to be the one to apologise that is what I do. Hope that helps.
2007-03-27 23:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by Lexi's mommy had twins! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop being a baby and that you love him and think it's silly to be mad over a "play fight" ! Also, in the future since you know he can't take the heat...don't play fight with him anymore !
2007-03-27 23:14:56 · answer #8 · answered by Zigracia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this is a tough one, since my wife and i never fight. but i would think the best thing to do would be to let everything cool down a little. after he comes out, i'm sure he will at least give you a little look. if he does, just put your arms around him and whisper "i'm sorry" followed by a heart-felt "i love you". after that, just sit and cuddle.
2007-03-27 23:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by wrldzgr8stdad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say that life is too short to fight and argue!!! Just go and tell your hubby you are sorry and you don't want to fight you just want to love!!! Good Luck!!!
2007-03-27 23:12:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....
if you don't want to be mad, try stopping on your own.
and start "beaming" love and wonderful things to him
even though he might be mad. you can get unmad by yourself. make his favorite food in the kitchen or do something nice you know he will like. even if he will not see it til tomorrow, do love gestures.
2007-03-27 23:12:39 · answer #11 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋