well ill tell u my story.... ok well lets just say this year started out great !! then everything fell apart : ( the guy that i liked moved, my parents got divorced..i even got lice for about a month (that was weird) and since my parents are getting a divorce i have to choice to move 8 hours away from my dad : ( but i would liv in a city with lots of people like i always wanted to .... but my dad would have no body . I dont know what to do cause i always wanted to leave this dump ( i like in a small town right now and i only have a few friends and they all live on the farm so they dont come over that much... im so sad because if i go to the city i might be happy but my friends wont be they dont have many friends ...i really dont know what to do
2007-03-27 16:05:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This decision is not about your Dad, he's all grown up, he'll be fine, go see him every other weekend, spend summers with him too! Your friends would love to see you then too. Your friends could also come to the city to spend a weekend with you. It's a long drive but it will be OK. My advice is to go to the city and get a feel for it, find out if you start school there and you don't like it if you can go back to your old school. Ultimately YOUR happiness is what matters, your Dad, Mom and friends will be fine with whatever you decide. Good Luck!
2007-03-27 16:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by DB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you, first off. You need to look out for you, your Dad will be fine. Follow your dream, if you always wanted to move to a big city... do it! Give it 1 year, if you don't like it you can always move back. The one thing I have learned at my age is if you don't move you will always wonder what it would have been like. This way you will know, and you will meet friends and you can always come back to visit your Dad and your friends from your town can come and visit you. There is so much to learn about and be excited about in a big city. You will grow and mature more from taking on this experience. Go for it!
2007-03-27 16:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by go2girl117 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to tell you the truth.. I think that this is totally up to you!! you can always make new friends but if you don't move who's to say if your dad will? and how is your mom? does she have friends where you live now.. or no.. a girl ALWAYS needs her mom.. but think of it this way.. i moved 10 1/2 hours away from my dad.. but i call him EVERYDAY and I love where i am now... not to mention that i have just as many if not more friends up here than i used to.. but its up to you!! good luck..
p.s. both of your parents will love you no matter what!!
2007-03-27 16:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by lil_qt_red92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 12:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by adamek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no u dont want 2 hurt ur dads fealings but my parents had the big D when i was 4 hell b sad but hell understand. its not about him its about u
2007-03-27 16:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with what you feel will be best for you , it may end in you haveing to only see your dad on weekends or only summer sme with your friends....do what ever you think will be the best decision....
ok this may sound dumb but its true!!!....lol
2007-03-27 16:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by azturtleblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋