Is this good choice?

Question

My girlfriend broke up with me...and she has a boyfriend now.
It's been six month and we really don't talk that much anymore. She doesn't want to talk about our relationship at all.

I asked her so it's all over between us and no going back...she replies I don't know.

she says she still loves me the way she used to but she also cares about her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is 1 year younger than her and she is 3 younger than me. She said she is so confused on what she wants when she thinks about it. She knows i am willing to work things out whatever the problem that broke us up, She said that she wants me but at the same time she doesn't. That doesn't she doesn't know how to explain it.

Yesterday, she wants to come and see me. I said why...she reply i just want to but it's not to get back... I reply sure but then she said she still have to think about it.

I've been single and stopped calling her. I was good to her. If it we meant to be together she'll come back...right?

Answer 1

Well it sounds like she still care about you but in a kind of a way a friend will care

Answer 2

She will come back if this guy dumps her. Then if she finds another she will dump you again. You are a for sure thing, not a fun place to be. Find someone that really means something. Be her friend. Nothing else, ever. Unless she grows up.

Answer 3

Honesty to yourself and to her, and your willingness to work out things that caused your misunderstanding with one another would be of great help to sort out the matter. At this moment, your former girl friend is confused. Perhaps you need also to explain yourself patiently about this matter to her.

I should think you are meant for each other if she comes back to you.

Answer 4

Sounds like she's hedging her bets.If she wanted to comeback she would've already.