my mom is PREGNANT!! I am tweenty years old and my mom is pregnant with her 4th child, my youngest sibling is 14!! What DO I DO??????
2007-03-27 15:59:13 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
She was twenty when she had me!!!
2007-03-27 16:11:06 · update #1
Me and my mom were pregnant together. It made child number 4 for her also. The youngest was 10. I was 19. My little brother is 5 months younger than my little girl. My second little girl is one year younger than my brother. My mom wasn't going to tell me untill the day I had my first baby. She accidentally called me while telling my step sister. We didn't talk for a while. Oh yeah and she got married 4 months before me and enagaged 7 months after me. so I guess pregnancy came next for both of us. Just try to be there for her. Once the baby gets here it will grow on you. I don't get to see my mom a lot we live so far away from eachother. I still see my brother he knows I am sissy and he has fun playing with my kids it isn't as bad as it seems. Most people just laugh about it, it happens more than you think. It is kind of funny when they think i have triplets when we are out together my kids are 17 months apart
2007-03-27 16:12:38 · answer #1 · answered by supermommy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My mom was 38 and I was 17 when she had my little sister Lucy... I don't see what the big deal about it is. It will probably be the last child she'll be able to have ... and now my little sister is 3 and she's my heart. :)
The only thing I would worry about is the complications due to her age. My mother had several problems including placenta privea, gestational diabetes, high blood pressure, dealing with two teenagers, and being pregnant during the summer. (Super hot in Georgia). But if she has a good doctor that watches for this stuff she should really be ok. Mine was. :)
2007-03-29 05:23:16 · answer #2 · answered by Holly O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. I am number 3 of a 8 person family. the oldest is 26 and the youngest is 8. I'm 22. It's hard to be as close to the younger ones as I am with the older ones cause i didn't grow up with the younger ones. It's awesome though because it will keep you young. My 8 yr old brother is best friends with my 2 yr old and is almost a borther for her. It's hard beacuse you won't know them as well but they will look up to you. It's really freaky at first. I was weirded out for a while but when he came along it was awesome.
2007-03-27 16:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kendra Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do either of 2 things:
1) Get angry at you mum and make the relationship worse.
2) Make the best of the situation. Learn more about pregnancy. Learn how to take care of your baby sibling. In the future, you will have many baby experience and your relationship with your mum will grow. When the time comes for you to be a mother, you will be the best mother. Your baby will be healthy than other babies.
2007-03-27 16:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Remember, this isn't about you :0)
My mom had my littlest brother wheen I was 18 - so I know how you feel. There's nothing you can do about it, nothing's going to change the fact that she's pregnant, the only thing you CAN do is be supportive of your mom during pregnancy and have fun with your youngest sibling!!!
2007-03-27 16:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by mommybearto2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself you are 20 years old.You shouldn't be over reacting like you are.Its not like you are 2-3 years old and your mom is having a baby.You are an adult.Heck you are old enough to have your own baby.So get over it.If your mom wants to have a baby there is not a dam* thing you can say or do to stop her.
Oh and to let you know last year I was pregnant and my dad who is almost 60 got his g/f pregnant.
2007-03-27 16:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by Ms.Danielle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There isn't a whole lot that you can do except for learn to deal with it.
If it makes you feel better, I am twenty-seven, have an eight year old, a four year old, and a nine month old. My parent's are divorced (my dad is on his fourth marriage) I have a three year old brother, and a ten month old sister from his most recent marriage.
2007-03-27 16:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by bluekitty8098 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulate her! Change diapers for her! Babysit for her!
If you are actually "tweenty" (twenty?), you are grown. The reproductive decisions your mother makes are ABSOLUTELY none of your business.
Enjoy!
2007-03-27 16:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Be there for her and help her... thats what i am doing, i was 18 and have no other siblings but the one my mom had when i was 18 i am now 20... and pregnant myself.... just help your mom out whenever you can she will apriciate it... my mother was 21 when she had me.... good luck with you and your family! Best Wishes!!
2007-03-27 18:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ LEILANI ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was 15 and the youngest of 3 of my dads and 2 of his now wife's its weird i now have a 9 yr old little brother and 5 tr old little sister i don't see them as much as i would like but i just don't get along with my dad but be happy it will be fun as long as you don't have to stay home weekends and babysit but i am sure you will spoil she/he rotten Good luck and don't worry it would just be very weird like my sister in law was when my dad had the little girl so hope it works out for you
2007-03-27 16:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋