Seriously, to avoid the rebound issue?
2007-03-27 15:55:54 · 12 answers · asked by Callie B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hmmm ...let me rephrase this from another pt of view. What's an appropriate length of time for a man to be divorced before you can feel comfortable not to be his rebounder?
2007-03-27 15:59:25 · update #1
very venerable Take enough time to be alone and lonely. It is real easy to get involved too soon. Nice people can get
hurt. Forget about the opposite sex for awhile and get to know
yourself better. We can discover allot about ourselves when
we are alone for awhile.
2007-03-27 16:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by messenger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first one you date is the rebound...whether it's a month or a year after your divorce... It took me a good 6 months before I dated and another 6 months before I was ready for a relationship.
2007-03-27 15:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say at least six months to a year if not longer as the person would need time to heal and get past the pain of the divorce first. Then the person would be ready to date and meet new people.
2007-03-27 16:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the time-physique isn't what concerns, its the form you experience. I relatively have seen destroy united stateswhere the two human beings have been devasted and lost without one yet another and wouldnt think of of relationship for a year after! and that i've got seen 2 human beings destroy up and already be over one yet another and leap suitable right into a sparkling relationship, comfortably. So its all as much as you and your emotions. additionally- solutions like the single 'serene e' gave make me choose to SCREAM! So, b/c there could be little ones, human beings ought to stay in distress and melancholy for the little ones sake!?!?! you dont think of they see/experience that?!?! Divorce is the suitable answer each and every so often!
2016-10-20 02:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least a year after the divorce is final. If kids are involved, when the youngest is 18.
2007-03-28 01:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after you have taken the time to figure out why you picked the wrong person the first time around.......
if you are the first, you'll be the rebound girl
2007-03-27 15:59:18 · answer #6 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shoot late;y most people don't wait until they are divorced - they date while they are married.
personally i think people need time for their hearts to heal, there is no set time. look to your head in matters of the heart, that might keep you from making a heartbreaking mistake
2007-03-27 16:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by ms_debbieg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geegus lady! cant you wait a little before you start your hunt for some STRANGE?
2007-03-27 16:13:29 · answer #8 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is a post-divorce etiquette. You answer to yourself, nobody else.
2007-03-27 16:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by charliecizarny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you think you are ready start dating
2007-03-27 15:58:21 · answer #10 · answered by Tummy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋