2007-03-27 15:52:32 · 53 answers · asked by brian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh yeah, I meant I had more women not men :<
2007-03-27 15:54:05 · update #1
Its alot for both of ya.There are no double standards theres man whores too ya know.
2007-03-27 15:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, what do you think? I suppose that's acceptable in the secular world and therefore it would be ok...more men...more experience, right? Same thing with you guys. Well, why don't you ask that question from a different point of view.....Is that the kind of woman you really want?Someone that has been to bed with a bunch of guys???? Is that who you really want to marry? Is that the kind of woman you want for your children???? Hmmmmm. Oh and by the way, being that she's been with sooooo many men, what makes you sooooo certain that she will be faithful to you? Curious, why do ask now after you married? Having doubts of some sort?? Oh, and by the way, if you have a daughter, are you going to teach her that its ok to be with a bunch of guys before you marry?
You wanna get into God's view on relationship with the opposite sex???? Sorry, that's another sermon. Let me know if you wanna hear it..LOL
2007-03-27 16:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 is a lot whether you are a man or a woman. The most important thing is did she practice safe sex? If she didn't, then you are taking a risk just by being with her. Talk about it with her, both of you should get tested for STD's, and then you should let it go. The past is the past, and everyone is different. The fact that you are a man, doesn't give you the right to have more or to be a player, in my opinion.
2007-03-27 16:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your logic is flawed. Since the sex ratio is near 50/50, it is not possible for men to have more different women, on average, and for women to have a fewer number of different men.
Let's say there are 10 men and 10 women in a room. Each of the men has sex with 10 different women. With how many men did each woman have sex?
So, if you think you have sex with more women because you are a man, then somewhere there is a woman who has had sex with more men than you have had with women. Think about it. Each time a man and a woman have sex with each other for the first time, two things happen: one man has had sex with another woman, and one woman has had sex with another man. In the long run it equals out.
It's a closed ecosystem.
2007-03-27 15:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How does that old adage go "you can't make a something or other a housewife"? I know what you mean about the man thing; stereotypically men can sex it up without love. But whatever maybe she was just was in touch with her masculine side!! Are you happy with her ( I'll pretend I haven't read your other questions) if you love her then just let it go she never should have told you a number!!
Girls ♥ Bacon!
2007-03-27 16:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by ☆♥•´`•.¸ ;-) •´`•.¸ ♥☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a friggin' hypocrite you are...I think you are intimidated that she has had alot of lovers so she can definitely compare you...maybe your concerned you won't stand up to that kind of competition...who knows.
You sound like a tool, so you are probably one of those 'little' men with such a complex the only way to make yourself feel like a man is to insult the only woman who would have you ~ lol. Thanks for the chuckle....I was beginning to think times were changing and some of the B.S. stereotypes were on their way out but NOPE!!
2007-03-27 16:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"But after all, Im a man."
Wow....there's the ol' sterotype biting you in the ***; if you're a guy, having lots of women makes you cool & a stud, if you're a woman who's had lots of men, you're easy, a slut or a degenerate. If you had more, then leave it at that. Even if you had LESS, why does it matter? You married her, for better or worse & how many "men" she had before you is inconsequential; she loves YOU, she married YOU. Whats in her past is just that in HER past. Love her for who she is. I DOUBT she dwells on your past conquests at ALL, so be a bit more confident of yourself & a "bigger man" and let it drop. Be happy she's all your now. :D
2007-03-27 16:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by Spiral_Dancer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you live in the United States? What's this "but I'm a man"?? The number is irrelevent. She was honest about it, so obviously she feels she has nothing to hide. She has chosen you for the long-term. Leave the past behind.
2007-03-27 16:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by C.J.S. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How nice of her to reveal her "number" to you. She didn't have to. I would take that and feel lucky that she felt comfortable enough to tell you that.
Now...the fact that men are not stigmatized for doing with many different partners, just remember MEN HAVE TO DO IT WITH SOMEONE TO RACK UP THOSE NUMBERS. Surely they are not all doing it with the same woman?----get real. Women do it as much as men. We have to just be on the "dl" more than men just for that type of attitude.
Good luck, and you are a lucky man.
2007-03-27 18:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by val girl_38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Mr Stud Muffin I dont know is that a lot? Wouldn't you prefer knowing that she had experienced all different lovers but thought you were the best package deal? Better she had them before you rather than after.
2007-03-27 15:57:37 · answer #10 · answered by karena k 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll put it this way, If u love her & she loves u it doesn't matter as long as u are both faithfull to each other . & I don't believe in it s ok for a man thing either that is sooo stupid. If u love her lover her for her, she married u not anone else & that should count for something
2007-03-27 16:10:06 · answer #11 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋