My best friend is BI?

Question

okay.. well my friend is bi and well he has liked a couple of guys.. two of them being my best friends also!! but anyways.. i have NOTHING against bi or gays but.. he keeps talking to me about him and "steve" going all the way at the park.. and a lot of kids at my school go the places they are talking about going.. and well they are homophobic and he hasn't came out.. all the way. so .. yeah.. how do i convince him.. well what should i do in general?

Answer 1

My best friend is gay an you cant do anything for him trust me youll ruin your friendship if you push him thats a serious step to come out all the way let him go at his own pace hes the only one who knows when he is ready if you care about him just be there when he needs you an he will tell you when believe me good luck hun...

Answer 2

Calm down first of all. I'm sure if they do anything in the park( which is totally illegal and they shouldn't be doing it in the first place.) they are in a secluded area. Just warn him that there are Homophobic antis that frequent those same areas of the park and see how he responds. Tell him to keep a cell phone on him in case he gets in a snare also mace if he has it handy. I'm afraid the only thing you can do is persuade him to be more cautious, maybe tell a story about how a gay person was isolated and beaten by a violent homophobic mob. That may get the cogs spinnin ;) mauh

Answer 3

If he is your "best friend", why are you discussing this with strangers and not him? You should be able to share your concerns about the park i.e. the fact that he is going to get the hell beaten out of him if he is caught and also the fact that it is a really rough way to be forced out of the closet if he isn't ready to be out yet. Why does he keep talking to you about all the things that he is doing? Straight, gay or bi, that is personal between the people involved. Do you think he might be trying to give you a little excitement with his escapades at the park?? I have often found that those who talk too much often aren't doing nearly as much as they're claiming:)

Answer 4

Just tell him going to make out with another guy at the park is a good place to get his *** kicked and help him think of a safer venue. It's not rocket science.

Answer 5

i imagine if you're fairly acquaintances then you really should be truthful and only say, "hi, because i imagine of you as easily one of my closest acquaintances, i'd be truthful... i like spending time with you, and also you're a superior chum. yet i do not imagine relationship could artwork, because i come across my self extra in contact in men." Then say the way you may save her secret or help her discover someone or some thing.

Answer 6

Sounds like he likes to talk a lot about his "activities." If so, he's going to get found out. Tell him to keep his mouth shut. Most people don't casually gab to their friends about their sex lives.

Answer 7

tell him he needs to be aware of the consequences of his actions. If he's going to be doing things out in the open he's gonna have to be aware that people are gonna start asking and he's going to have to prepare himself how to answer.

Answer 8

Be happy for him, because he is always gonna have a date on Friday and Saturday.

As for the kids, you would really be surprised, it won't raise that many eyebrows, the eyebrows raised are going to be from the right wing "Christian" parents that think gay is a contagious disease.

Answer 9

you should tell him to speek up! its nothing. some ppl hate other ppl just because they are different. thats nothing to lose and there are a lot of other ppl that are bi to. ITS NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF!
good luck!
:)

Answer 10

continue to be his friend...let him to decide the moves...