My girlfriend broke up with me...and she has a boyfriend now.
It's been six month and we really don't talk that much anymore. She doesn't want to talk about our relationship at all.
I asked her so it's all over between us and no going back...she replies I don't know.
she says she still loves me the way she used to but she also cares about her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is 1 year younger than her and she is 3 younger than me. She said she is so confused on what she wants when she thinks about it. She knows i am willing to work things out whatever the problem that broke us up, She said that she wants me but at the same time she doesn't. That doesn't she doesn't know how to explain it.
Yesterday, she wants to come and see me. I said why...she reply i just want to but it's not to get back... I reply sure but then she said she still have to think about it.
I've been single and stopped calling her. I was good to her. If it we meant to be together she'll come back...right?
2007-03-27 15:04:15 · 7 answers · asked by Good and Evil 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
forget her, and go on with your life....sometimes, when we are trying to own the things we thought we deserve, we are actually letting go other chances that god has destined us with...we always believe that we know what we want but we always cease to believe that god above knows best!
May God bless you, amen.
2007-03-27 15:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by Isabel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes male or females that have broken up but still
give you a little crumb to hold onto do this because they may
want to have the option to come back. Even if they have no
intention of doing so. Who doesn't want someone in their
back pocket for a rainy day? This girl sounds too immature
for a one on one relationship and you deserve better treatment.. Date others and you'll forget about her. It takes
time.
2007-03-27 22:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by messenger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just stay away from her and let her decide what she's going to do. It sounds like she's still very imature and unsure about what she wants. She probably doesn't want to hurt her current boyfriend's feelings by just going to be with you. The choice is hers, all you can do is be there. Just don't stay waiting for her though, you have a life to live, go out with friends and have fun. Staying single is your choice not hers. Good Luck! =)
2007-03-27 22:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by DB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time. If you are/were better than the current bfriend then she'll be back. It may suck waiting, so don't. Hang out with friends or other things to keep busy. A little quiet time from you and she'll be comming if it was meant to be. Good Luck.
2007-03-27 22:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by unit663 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that she is confused. I wouldn't worry about it too much, as it seems as though you're pretty much over the relationship at this point.
Your best bet is to simply move on. If she wants something from you badly enough, she will communicate that to you. If she doesn't, she's simply trying to play games - perhaps she's trying to "keep her options open". Either way, it's unhealthy, unnecessary, and only adds to your confusion.
I suggest that you just leave her behind, and move on.
2007-03-27 22:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by taotedan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yeah but she wants you to make the move from what i read
2007-03-27 22:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by darthkevin27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya you will, she's just making sure there's no one better out there
2007-03-27 22:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by musicislife808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋