Is this Good Choice?

Question

My girlfriend broke up with me...and she has a boyfriend now.
It's been six month and we really don't talk that much anymore. She doesn't want to talk about our relationship at all.

I asked her so it's all over between us and no going back...she replies I don't know.

she says she still loves me the way she used to but she also cares about her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is 1 year younger than her and she is 3 younger than me. She said she is so confused on what she wants when she thinks about it. She knows i am willing to work things out whatever the problem that broke us up, She said that she wants me but at the same time she doesn't. That doesn't she doesn't know how to explain it.

Yesterday, she wants to come and see me. I said why...she reply i just want to but it's not to get back... I reply sure but then she said she still have to think about it.

I've been single and stopped calling her. I was good to her. If it we meant to be together she'll come back...right?

Answer 1

Not always, don't take the fact that someone comes back means it was meant to be, it could just be that she isn't liking the way her new boyfriend is treating her or how the new relationship is going. It's always easier to go back to what we are used to than to stick through something new.

Take this time to get to know yourself, your friends, your hobbies, so that if she ever does want to come back, you will know better what to do.

Honestly though, if she is so confused between you and him, I think you already have your decision. You deserve someone who can make a clear choice when it comes to being in a relationship, not someone who wants their cake and eat it too.

Good luck.