well,my friend used to be really good friends with this one girl who was really mean to her.so they arent good friends anymore. but my friend told me about the stuff she would say and do behind her back. so i decided not to get too close to this girl cus i dont want all that stuff to happen to me. well anyways, yesterday i was walking down the hall with this girl (this is like the first time the whole year that i have actually talked to her one-on-one) and my other friend walked by, looked but didnt say anything. then after school while i was just chatting with her for a little bit...not even 5 min. so today my friend decides to give me the cold shoulder and i asked her whats wrong and she just smiles and walks away. so i find out from someone else that i hurt her feelings because i knew that that girl was mean to her and now i am "hanging out" with her. yesterday was the first time that i actually talked to her, its not like we were planning a sleepover. so should she be mad at me?
2007-03-27 14:57:10 · 6 answers · asked by chrissytine721 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, it sounds like a misunderstanding. So if you found that out from someone else the best thing to do would be to confront your friend about it and let her know that u didnt mean to upset her. But at the same time let her know that the girl never did anything to u for u to not be friends with her and that u would give her a chance as a friend until she blows it. Tell your friend that u are still her friend but u should not have to not be friends with someone else because she doesn't get along with them
2007-03-27 16:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she should be because basically that says maybe she was trying to turn you and maybe other people against her. I think first you should talk to the girl (who was being a backstabber) and ask her whats going on. Like say what you've heard and been told and tell her you dont want that happening to you. If she indicates that that story is true then just dont be her friend and make nice with your other friend. If she says that story is untrue and its not gonna happen you get her and your other friend together and talk about it. Thats all you really can do is talk about it with them and not make any enemies.
2007-03-27 22:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, because she thinks your keeping secret, or taking her side, your friend would be mad at you.
If thats the case, tell your friend what you did. She need to know too.
Your right though, you deffenitly don't want to get in the middle of this.
2007-03-27 22:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by ladiesman27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really its not u was sharing secrets with her u waz just talking theres nuttin wrong with a talk.
2007-03-27 22:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by hoodqueen118 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY if your friends this sensative drop her, she needs to blow it off, call her home phone and if she still doesnt want to talk then give her some space!
lots of love EMMIE
2007-03-27 22:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by Emmie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probly thinks you were talkin bout her
tell her the whole story but also giev her a couple of days to cool off and if she still is mad shes isnt a true friend
but wat would i kno my "friends' suk and they screw me over all the time
2007-03-27 22:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋