Ok, say I have a friend and she's a really *****, but we're very close and she didn't know something that everyone is say and it so happens I have a big mouth and i love talking and I can't what so ever tell this to her what kind of best friend am I. What the hell should i do? Tell her or not?
2007-03-27 14:32:54 · 2 answers · asked by hug a bear if you dare 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
let me explain...i like talking and i can't tell this to my friend and if she finds out she'll be very piss and throw it in my face that i couldn't even tell her even after knowing she'll be pissed.
2007-03-27 14:40:45 · update #1
Your question is incredibly convoluted, but I think you're asking whether you should tell your friend something that others are saying (NOT everyone, because that would include me, and my uncle, and my cousin, and none of us have heard this) that you think would hurt your relationship. First, is it true? Second, is it going to hurt her? Third, did you promise to keep the secret? Fourth, if it's about your friend, did you defend her? Fifth, if it would mess up your friendship, is it something you did? It's more important to treat your friend fairly regardless of the damage to the friendship. Put her first. Even if it means losing her.
2007-03-27 14:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I don't understand.
2007-03-27 21:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋