Okay, so, me and some of friends went to a club, right. and there was this guy who was really really cute and and we were hanging out and stuff. i got really really drunk and i didnt know what i was doing and i accidently had s** with him. i woke up the next day and i was next to him, ON THE SAME BED! and than i started throwing up and as it shows, i'm pregnant and my boyfriend doesn't know. and he thinks its his. i dont know what to do! HELP!
2007-03-27 14:24:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The best thing that you can do for yourself is to tell your boyfriend the truth. The truth will hurt, but at least he knows what is going on and what kind of situation that you are in. You could either keep the baby or get an abortion. This particular event that is going on in your life should teach you a lesson on being careful and pay attention to your surroundings. At least the guy didn't rape you or did anything worse. I'm not trying to fuss at you or anything, but you really need to be careful the next time you decide to go out and get drunk. Just tell your boyfriend the truth. Honesty is the best policy.
2007-03-28 17:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you choose to keep the baby, you should most definately tell your boyfriend AND the guy you slept with. Both have a right to know, and the guy you slept with has a financial responsibility towards the child.
Also the only reason to not tell him is you dont want to look bad by admitting you cheated. And that is a completely selfish, self-centered way of thinking. I'm not trying to be mean, but just really straight with you. And it will end up hurting everyone - even you. Because, anytime you keep something hidden it will eat at you, and eat at you. Do your self a huge favor, an them as well and fess up.
Besides, Im thinkin that your current boyfriend isnt the one for you. If he really was you would've never let things get as far as they did with the other "cute" guy.
2007-04-04 11:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by Nick A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were drunk but it was no accident. He may have been drunk too but unless it was a rape, it was not an accident. You went with friends to the club - you had to say good bye to them and go with him.
You're going to have to be honest with your boyfriend and probably have to face the pregnancy and raise this child without him. I'd try to find the guy - maybe it won't be easy but he has to know.
I wish you luck. The very best help that you need A.S.A.P. is from your parents. Talk to them right now and tell them what is happening. They will be disappointed and probably sad and angry all at once. But this is life.
2007-04-04 04:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's nothing that you can do. You went to the club, got drunk, slept with the guy, and became pregnant.
But, that's not the point.
The point is that, you made a decision to go to the club, got drunk, and.........well, that's it.
At first, you would've talked with God about where you go and do. If he says don't do it, which he would've said, but ignored him, and you went off without concluding him. And you shouldn't be talking to strangers like that, and do what he says. I thought you're suppose to be an adult. But, you go running off to a club like that................
Anyways, before you go to the club, or anywhere Else, talk to god first and see what he says. He makes the best decisions.
I hoped I helped
Good Luck!
2007-04-04 13:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by TempoBronze124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOPS! So you have the other mans contact info? you shold definately get to the bottom of this now, before we see you on the Maury show in 5 years. Are you sure it's the other mans? Wehn did you start throwing up...Does the date of conception match your due date. Could it be yourboyfriends child...
BE HONEST with youself and the men involved. It would be horable to fall in love with another mans child
2007-03-27 14:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by Caryn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy! Tell him what happened, The baby might be his too. Don't rule out any possibilities. You do have options, depending on your religious back-round. Just be open and hope your boyfriend loves you enough to get through this.
2007-04-04 11:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by poopinmypocket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that sucks. Well you got a few options. 1. Tell him the truth and have an abortion if you want. 2. Don't tell him and have the kid and let the truth fester inside you. Sorry but I am very blunt at times.
2007-03-27 14:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by Desert Punk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man! Well, do you love your boyfriend? If so, you will tell him. No matter how hard it may seem, you have to do it. If not, you will be stuck with this nightmare forever. As for the baby, keep it if you want, or get an abortion ASAP. it's up to you! Good Luck!!!
2007-03-27 14:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by trueblue128 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..better speak up now before the baby gets here. Sounds like you are about to raise a child on your own.
Good luck with that.
2007-04-04 07:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you messed up. Dont let your guy take the wrap for some other mans mistake. If you love your guy tell him and let the cookie crumble.
2007-03-27 14:29:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋