my friend is a whore?

Question

hey guys my friend emily rose is a whore she got pregnant and now she wants to get an abortion what can i do to stop her from killing an innocent baby she told me she been on her and she asked yall for help but all yall did was leave her with stupid answers no come on shes my friend we go to the same high school and she needs help badly she has no family her mom and dad left her cuz she decided to be a whore and her grandparents live in another state and she has no sisters or brothers or aunts and uncles only friends and my parents and thats sad and she leaves in some cheap apartment and paying her own bills with mcdonalds money and her hooker money and that makes me sad when no one wants to help her but me and my parents and so come on please help me and if u want to give me extra info feel free to email me at [e-mail] so come on guys no stupid answers i really need your help and she does too so please and thank you i luv u all of u bye and have a good night (xoxox)

Answer 1

Its her decision, but go with her to planned parenthood, they'll show you the video of what the abortion really is, and if she still wants it its her choice, there's lots of options out there for her, not to be biased but everyone that I know that's gotten an abortion never really move on, they always wonder what it would've been like, or how old their child would be, and I'm talking about your whole life living with what ever decision you made.

Answer 2

First of all, I don't know where you are from but there must be some sort of welfare system or young teen mothers' support groups. What's wrong with the option of giving up the baby for adoption? An abortion should not be a choice if health isn't an issue. The best thing you can do is stop referring to YOUR FRIEND as a WHORE. Unfortunately it sounds as if she had to supplement her McDonald's pay with the "street work". I do not think this was a career choice she made lightly, it was a survival instinct at work. With parents that are unsupportive it is easy to stray to the streets. Give your friend all the emotional support you and your family can provide but don't allow your kindheartedness to be taken advantage of. Perhaps your parents would be willing to take her in if she is prepared to work a ligitamate job or go to school and provide a reasonable rental agreement that is fair to both parties involved. As long as she follows house rules, why not? But that would depend on how involved your parents want to get. Otherwise help your friend to research funding and housing subsidies in your town. Good Luck.

Answer 3

Everyone who has said that you're a jerk is 1200% correct you're no friend if every other word about her from you is she's a whore. She is a human being with a serious problem, Who is worried about bringing another human being into this world in a worse position than she is - IT cant fend for itself she needs to have your support - not your name calling she needs your help not your opinion of her life.

Let her make her own decision and without you telling her what to do because if she does what you TELL her to and then after she hates what she did, she will blame you FOREVER.
let her make up her own mind and if you're a real friend, support whatever decision she makes including whether or not she continues being a hooker/McDonalds employee unless your going to give her the money and place to live to stop being that.

Answer 4

Excuse me, but what type of person calls their friend a whore? And if she has to support herself and all she had was a job at McDonalds she probably went to the street to SURVIVE. The least you could do is HELP her by not calling her a whore every 30 seconds, thats the LAST thing she needs right now. TALK to her, CARE for her, HELP her through these times... living on her own is already tough but now she's PREGNANT, which means she'll only be able to do LESS for herself, let her make her own decisions, and stop acting like a brat.

Answer 5

To begin with she should have taken precautions from getting pregnant when she has decided to be a whore. Its her decision thus she needs to take responsibility. Next, on the abortion. I know killing innocent babies is not right but what are the choices she has? What do you think the child will grow up to be like with single-parenting? You and your mom can help but for how long and what are your resources? It's a life-time commitment to have a child. So I would think it appropriate that she give birth to the child and give it up for adoption. Get a decent job and start life afresh.

Answer 6

ok your calling her a whore and look at your e mail address, OK so your friend messed up look how you are talking about her calling her a whore.. She is not the first to get knocked up and she wont be the last for this to happen to either.
She has a lot of choices
DOES SHE WANT TO KEEP THE BABY
she can find a couple wanting the baby real easy...........
and if she wasnt a good home for the baby e mail me I know a lot of AWESOME couple who would adopt in a second.\
If you want to support her be there and help her but sitting here calling her a whore with friends like you who needs enemies

Answer 7

This is your friend and your calling her a whore? Your friend?? See sometimes people fall behind and we need help and we turn to friends cause no one else wants to help us. You as a friend are not doing a good job right now. Having an abortion is better than living somewhere like she is living in and growing up poor and no food. She can barley take care of her self you want her to have a baby? are you crazy. Your friend is still in high school she needs some serious help talk to your councilors not us! use your F***** head if your a good friend! Talk to them they will get her help they have a lot of organizations that can help her.

Answer 8

The Definition of Abortion is: Abortion is the expulsion of an embryo or fetus that is not normally able to live outside the womb. Spontaneous abortion or miscarriage may result from human imperfections or from an acccident. Deliberately
induced abortion simply to avoid the birth of an unwanted child is the willful taking of human life.

The Bible shows God's view on the matter of Abortion, and life. Acts 17:28: "By him (GOD) we have life and move and exist." Romans 14:12: "Each of us will render an account for himself to God."
Genesis 9:6: "Anyone shedding man's blood, by man will his own blood be shed, for in God's image he made them."
Exodus 20:13: "You must not murder."
God views life as sacred, and valuable. If anyone willfully shed's mans blood, or a child's blood, they will be accountable to God for this horrid act. Yes she made a mistake, and the child might be better off with someone else taking care of it. But this is no reason to murder, an innocent fetus who never did anything wrong. Why don't you talk to her about going to her grandparents, and giving birth there. Then she could give up the child for adoption. Many people would take good care of the child, and give the child proper care, and love. One girl I knew in school had an abortion, and she regreted it later in life. This caused her to be severly depressed. She had three children later in life too, but she sometimes thinks about what it would be like to have four, and she wished she could take what she did back.
This is your friends decision, but God, even though he gave us free will, he still made laws for our benefit. Abortion is against his laws.
Continue to be a friend to her, for God does see what you are doing for her, and he loves those who willingly care for others, and respect him too. I hope she can get the needed help too, from a counselor, or a caseworker. People who deal with this on a daily basis know what avenues to take concerning adoption.

Answer 9

you really shouldn't call your friend a whore....sounds like she is going through a lot right now and that isn't going to help her and she might want to try to talk with her parents...but all you can do is express your feelings...and let her know that there are other options then having an abortion..like putting the baby up for adoption

Answer 10

I'm guessing she's not too willing to listen to advice, because we all know she's got to clean up her act. If she works at McD's, so be it. She's going to have to accept that. She has to clean up her apartment and do her homework. She should either work things out with her parents, live with relatives, or sue her parents for being negligent.

My real advice though would be to read this book: The Power of Now, by Eckhart Tolle.