am very bummed. My Friend and y would sit in the back of these team meetings we would have at school. And right notes in my agenda, so i wrote negative thii am about to get negative things about people and cussed and got caught by my teacher. i am abot to get suspended. So my dad is helping me through this but my mom is only punishing me. And my friend, tory wrote in it also, she wined how if she gets in trouble, she will lose track, the only thing she enjoys. this year has sucked and i have to take all the heat, my grades suck and i am crying. So please tell me a hobbie that can come me down accept for music. So please comfort me and be symphathetic. my friend is selfish and i am going to avoid her. i only have jonny cash, bono, gerard, and the gorrilaz.
2007-03-27 13:37:06 · 4 answers · asked by Scarlet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey girl don't be too hard on yourself, this is just part of growing up. Everybody has done something stupid out of boredom or just not thinking it through! I went through a rough patch once where I stole money from my mother and a friend to support my nasty drug habit. It happens to us all in one form or another just be glad this isn't too serious of a problem and with time it will fix itself and be forgotten. Take the lesson learned from this misjudgement and put it to good use in the future. Focus on school work and forget the other bull that goes on around school. Ask for extra credit assignments if you really want to boost your grades. This will give you something to focus on and help you produce good things with your time. It's hard to find a true friend as you now know so don't forget to really look through future friends to avoid those selfish ones. Do you like poetry? Try writing your feelings down in your own creative way but only at home where you can be sure nobody will read it unless you want them to. I do this and it helps me relax and get thoughts out of the way so I can move on with what needs to be done. Set some personal goals for yourself, it will keep you pushing for what you want out of life no matter how big or small your goals may seem this will help!
Sorry, I know life sucks...especially through the school years but always look forward not backwards. I applaud you on your choice to ignore the person who calls herself a friend. Stand proud of yourself for taking the punishments that she can't face, this makes you a much better person than she'll ever be!
Chin up and dry those tears sweetie, "If there were no problems, there would be no opportunities!"
Best of luck to you <
2007-03-27 14:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Growing up is very hard. We make mistakes and get into trouble, get expelled and our parents punish us. Life is hard. It is a good idea to learn from your mistakes. If you learn a good lesson, then all is not lost. Avoid people who get you into trouble or make you unhappy. As hard as it will be, listen to your parents, gain their trust back...walk the line...just like Johnny says! As time passes and you grow up some, much of this will be just a memory.
Scrapbooks are a fun hobby, fill it with photos, drawings, journal on some of the pages. Have fun with it! Get a small camera and take photos to fill the pages. Draw pictures and hang them around your room! Practice your drawing skills!
It's not the end of the world. Many of us have not been good 'students' you're not alone. Just try to do your best, behave yourself. There is just too much misery and hurt to be defiant, a troublemaker. I am glad your dad is supporting you. Many young people don't have even one parent who is kind!! Good luck to you!
2007-03-27 21:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by Eve 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can't really help you with a hobby or anything like that, but i can offer a few words.
you are just a kid. you have your whole life to look forward to. this problem you are facing will pass and be forgotten very soon. being probably three times your age, i have had problems like these come and go a million times. life's just like that.
just learn not to take things so seriously. if you're in high school, my advise to you is to enjoy every minute because they will probably be the best years of your life. when you become an adult, life starts to suck.
2007-03-27 21:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by locksmithite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do when your feeling down is to exercise, go for a walk or a jog, trust me it makes you feel so much better...
2007-03-27 21:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by *!Bel!* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋