I'm a seventeen year old guy and I want to give myself to my sweetheart...and only her.
I was wondering, I'm going to be joining a fraternity, paryting, clubbing, etcc which will def. present more opportunities to ruin my goal...but
In general is it difficult saving youself until marriage??
2007-03-27 13:36:04 · 16 answers · asked by varsfootball44 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not really. If you've made up your mind to save yourself and are commited in doing that, then nothing should stand in your way. There may be times when you might want to, esp. in the moment, but you could also refrain from putting yourself in those situations, like don't be alone with a girl in your room or hers where things could "just happen." Keep reminding yourself of why you want to wait.
2007-03-27 13:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin at seventeen is alright, but when you get a little alcohol into you and there's wonderful girls all around then it will definitely be hard. If you've already made up your mind that you want to be with only your sweet heart, then save yourself the time and don't party with other chicks.
2007-03-27 20:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by JUDAS RAGE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing worth anything is EASY!
Yes it is difficult, but it will be worth it. You probably should re-think your plans to join a fraternity and go clubbing... unless you plan to "not drink" you may put yourself in bad positions that you will regret.
2007-03-27 20:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by katiebug 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on who you are as a person. if that's your goal, it speaks highly of you to do that. it also speaks volumes about how much character you have and will develop between now and when you get married.
That kind of goal oriented behaviour and character, ethical values and morals will help you immensely in your career, marriage and many other things throughout your entire life.
it can be done. and it doesn't have to be difficult to achieve. mind over hormones.
2007-03-27 20:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by pleaserallday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are strong willed no. I gave myself to my wife at the age of 22. As a result she trusts me more and we are closer.
My best friends are porn stars and models and I'm a touring musician and was since i was your age.
Grow some self discipline and stand up for your morals and ideals. Did Gahndi give up his hungerstrike cause he was hungry?
2007-03-27 21:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jim_atthedrive-in 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a guy it is because he reaches his sexual peek at 18 and if you don't have sex you will get what they call blue balls . What it is its real bad cramps if you don't relieve yourself . I know I'm going to get thumbs down on this from the woman but its true
2007-03-27 20:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes didn't you just post as a girl saying you were saving yourself for your husband.My bad I went back and checked, its hard especially when its hard but would be quite nobal.
2007-03-27 20:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a uterus. There's no point in you waiting. You'll just end up letting a woman hold sex over your head just to get a ring.
2007-03-27 20:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. And not really worth it. But that is just how I feel. I cannot tell you from life experience. Good luck.
2007-03-27 20:41:53 · answer #9 · answered by Brown Sug. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For some it isn't. But for you, it will be.
If the opportunity comes by, take it. If it doesn't, find it.
REMEMBER SAFE SEX ALWAYS.
2007-03-27 21:18:58 · answer #10 · answered by wisdom tooth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋