My best guy friend for around 2 years is acting very strange...idk y. We used to talk alot at school we would sit next to each other and we would also talkon the phone. But lately he is been mean to me in front of other ppl... like he would tell me to shut up when his friends are around...and im not even talking!!! then when we are alone he will flirt with me and talk to me like crazy!!! What do u think i should do bout this?
2007-03-27 13:33:37 · 18 answers · asked by cutiegurl17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I kinda like him..but he doesnt know i do
2007-03-27 13:33:57 · update #1
umm while he talking to you like crazzy while your alone just tell me that you dont like how he treats you when he with you and his friends
2007-03-27 13:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by love is so....... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same spot, almost. The same thing happened to my friend though, and she just pulled the guy aside for a minute and told him straight out. He'll take it more seriously if you tell him straight out, because he'll know it's embarassing, and you are going to lengnths to get him to stop. I think he likes you, but this way he won't have to admit it unless he wants to. Don't make him to uncomfortable though......
2007-03-27 20:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably loves you and doesn't want his friends to know just hav a conversation about him making u feel sad for being mean to u he will probably feel guilty and say sorry and then u'll hav a moment with the guy and he'll treat u good trust me it always works
good luck :)
2007-03-27 20:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he likes you. i think that's the classic sign of an immature interest in a girl. but he has to show is friends that he's still the dominant player whether your in a relationship or not.
you can ask him point blank why he shut your up, see what he says. but my guess is he has a crush on you.
2007-03-27 20:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by mike s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt more with him, because he might like u and u don't even known it, trust me those things happen, and we are not always noticing what other people do. He is shy, he doesn't want other people to know he likes u, so don't worry he might even ask u out tommorow or some day of the week. I know someone who likes a guy, tthe guy is my friend and likes thegirl too, he is dieng to ask her out, but he doesn't, so I asked him if he liked her, and he to told me yes, he did, but made me ptomise not to tell her, so nw she is impatient, she likes him he doesn't want to tell her. Both like each other but don't want to say it to each other.\
GOO LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-27 20:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by Naila 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him privately what's wrong. Tell him that everything he says is safe with you, and tell him that u were about to ask him if you 2 could be "more than friends." This will ttly get him to chill-out, and he might even ask you out. GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-27 20:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by charlietheunicorn12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh oh classic case of the: he-likes-u-so-hes-mean-to-u. Best cure is a simple comeback that'll surprise him, and his frends wont let him live it down. plus u'll get a little respect on both sides. TAKE IT AND RUN WITH IT!!!
2007-03-27 21:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because all hot men are jerks and he just wantes to be cool around his friends. i would onestly take it too persoanly. guys are shows offs.dont listen to him. if i were you if he continues i would just confront him about the situation and say it really hurty your feelings that he was being a jerk to you only around his freinds. simply ask him why?
hope it helps much! :]
2007-03-27 20:37:59 · answer #8 · answered by soccerstar310102 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's ashamed to show any type of affection towards you in front of other people----find new friends. You don't need to be hanging out with that idiot
2007-03-27 21:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by Ghanaian Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a crush on you and is frustrated. Guys don't hang around with girls because they make such good friends. They hang around with girls because they want to be with them. If you like him tell him fast and if you don't, tell him to get lost.
2007-03-27 20:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋