M best friend is the best thing in the world to me. But today was really strange because he didnt say a thing to me. He would usually talk, talk, talk. He has a very big mouth. When I asked him what was wrong, he didn't even tell me, he turned and walked away. One of his friends told me that he was just in a car accident and his dad died. So can you please help me get him to feel better. I don't like him this mad. He isn't talking, turing in his work, or eat lunch and I am very worried that one morning, he wont be able to wake up.
PLEASE HELP!
PLEASE HELP, he is very mad.
2007-03-27 13:31:36 · 11 answers · asked by Mrs. Joe Jonas 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he will talk when he is ready just be there for him dont push him to talk you may push him away doing that he is very sad at the moment and hates the world he will get over this just give it time but you be a friend and just be there when ever he needs you good luck : )
2007-03-27 13:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't take this personally. Losing a parent is one of the hardest things to face in life. Your friend has much to deal with.Depending on the circumstances of the accident he may be blaming himself as well which would explain his anger. Give him the space he needs for a while , he will come around.His family will help him through this so don't worry just be nice and be his friend when he's ready to see you again. I know it's sad and you want to help but he needs time to heal .
Take care : )
2007-03-27 13:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by uncle louie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This divorce is a loss--purely like the lack of a guy or woman in loss of existence--we mourn it , come to grips with it and then circulate on. The divorce needs to be mourned via your buddy--which will take time--as lots time because it needs to get previous it. existence would not provide up while a divorce happens--all in touch ought to circulate on of their very own way. your buddy needs to come back to grips and comprehend that it particularly is an person difficulty--he needs to make certain it from an person potential--or as suitable as he can. the mothers and dads had issues--they are no longer blaming him--he's not the reason for it. He needs to assist whoever is left looking after him--it particularly is a mutual help. human beings speaking is undesirable flavor--he needs to ignore approximately it--human beings will continually communicate so enable them to be and ignore approximately it. there isn't any longer something you're able to do yet be friendly and supportive--he's a chum and can do a similar for you---gradually do extra social, relaxing issues, no longer too loud or seen--purely ease into it. enable him communicate his anger out--no longer combat--tell him it particularly is okay to particular it to you. purely be a sturdy listener. thank you--sturdy success.
2016-10-20 02:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is most likely not mad but deeply hurt. since you are a good friend he doesnt want to become too emotional around you. give him a little space and before going right up to him in person email or call him and let him know everythings alright and you will always be there to talk. let him know if he ever needs to talk it out or just needs a shoulder to lean on that you will be there. i hope you find what you are looking for and good luck to your friend! i hope i helped.
2007-03-27 13:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is grieving the loss of his father. Offer your support and let him know that you are there for him if he needs to talk. Give him some space. Call to check on him or give him a card. It will take some time for him to return to himself. Everyone grieves differently. Just be his friend, he will need your support.
2007-03-27 13:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by Shanna h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see that you are very worried about yor friend. Maybe you can do something to make him feel better like take him to the movies or try talking to his mom about what is happening.
2007-03-27 13:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by luvbabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when you lose someone close to you like a parent... that is one of the hardest things you can get threw... nothing can take care of that kind of pain... nothing but time... and staying prayerful.
:-)
2007-03-27 13:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by fthsunshine@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you talk to one of his family members? Perhaps together, you can all help him.
2007-03-27 13:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by Czech Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rent a movie...(not weekend at bernie's)
2007-03-27 13:35:12 · answer #9 · answered by ushoveit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your counselor at school and tell them to help him.
2007-03-27 13:35:00 · answer #10 · answered by Alone again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋