I am 13, and I just moved in with my best friend, now my stepsister! The only problem is she thinks I ma Miss. Perfect, and she complains that I am bossy and I'm always saying mean things, even when she'd do the same thing. Am I the enemy here? I don't want to hate her, but I'm starting to...
2007-03-27 13:30:15 · 12 answers · asked by Madeline A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's just the way you are. I'm bossy too, and there's nothing wrong with it as long as you like it.
Maybe she's the evil stepsister, who knows? maybe she's just trying to annoy you for you to think you are the evil one.
Think about it.
Luck :)
2007-03-27 13:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 12⤋
Of course ur not a evil stepsister. It sounds like your bf is not used 2 havin' u around all day so she's gonna need 2 get used 2 it. just try 2 b nice 2 her and try 2 not get 2 upset when she does something u don't like. Every body's bossy sometimes and it's natural. u shouldn't worry about anything right now, it'll prob turn up ok.
2007-03-27 21:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by Allison 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither of you are evil stepsisters. Even if you two are best friends, it's hard to make that kind of transition to being around each other ALL of the time now. I think that once you two have made the adjustment and it's going to take several months most likely you'll be even closer than you were before. What you could do is just try to make alone time for yourselves so that you each have time to unwind away from one another.
2007-03-27 20:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by Lys 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is feeling a little displaced and not sure what to do about her feelings.She is not only sharing her home but her parent with someone new. That's a hard adjustment for anyone. You probably feel a little out of sorts because of it too. What I suggest is talk to her because people sometimes act out without thinking things through. You said you were best friends .... now is the time to remember what you like about each other ... it will help you both through this change you are experiencing. Decide to help each other rather than make it worse. Take care and hang in there ... it will work out , just give it some time. : )
2007-03-27 20:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by uncle louie 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are just spending too much time together. Maybe you should get with her and calmly explain the situation and how you feel about it. It also wouldn't hurt to get some alone time away from your stepsister to give both of you a chance to cool off. Good luck.
2007-03-27 20:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by irish1994 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Dont you worry about her, worry that you may have to live with someone BESIDES YOUR BFF. like YOUR enemy. things could be worse, like you could have one arm, or you could have NO friends. ur not evil, and maybe ur sis is a little hypocryt, but one little fight should clear things up say "You are being such a hypocryt! do you remember when you_____________and now your telling me i_____________?!?!? I DONT THINK SO!!!" u 2 wil have a lil time to think, and then ull make up and u both will have learned a valuable lesson.
2007-03-27 20:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u said she is ur best friend and telling u that u r too perfect ,i can tell bfore uand her weren't step sis she didn't think that about u . that just how sisters are u guys r going to have ur ups and downs and then make up back so dont say u hate her because u r going to regret saying it
2007-03-27 20:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by nikki b 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are both doing it, you could say that neither one of you are evil step sisters, or both of you are. Try and really really focus on what you say to her, and what you do. You don't want to loose a friendship because you are relatives now...
2007-03-27 20:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to put some distance between ya. Remember you moved in on her she has to get used to you being in her house 24 hours a day. She has to get used to you being there now.
2007-03-27 20:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by Alone again 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
So what.If she was your real sister she wouldn't complain.Believe me I have 4 sisters and 4 brothers. I never hear them complian no matter how meen I am, or bossy.
2007-03-27 20:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Muffy♥ ♫Rocks♫ 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
looks like she has the say so. some one has to be the boss. so love your boss
2007-03-27 20:36:05 · answer #11 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋