Give examples too. The best and complete answer wins 10 points.
2007-03-27 13:23:59 · 19 answers · asked by Cheshire Riddle 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
There are thousands (if not more) who hate me because of my nationality, skin color, who my parents were, that I have a good job and other reason.
Guess what, it does no bother me half as much as it bothers those who hate me. They form plots, carry out campains of terror, kill innocents and generaly show the world how they can corrupt their own beliefs to destory me and what I represent.
They occasionally succeed in hurting part of my "family", but the reprecussions far outweigh the small successes they have had.
And, if they somehow get me personally, then my neighbor still has almost the same life I do.
I continue my life without letting their hatred affect me, and generally have a happy life. Their lives are filled with dispair simply becuase I, and others like me exist.
Who is the worse off?
(Is that complete enough, I could go on.)
2007-03-27 13:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by Walking Man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Hater: Why? Because the hater is the one who walks around with all the hostility, anger and frusteration and the hated simply goes on with their life and doesnt feel the reprecussions of the haters feelings within themselves. Hating someone takes away from a happy content spirit, while being hated doesnt. Being hated mostly hurts when the hater is being vendictive. Ultimately, hating someone is not an issue between you and the hated, its an issue between you and God.
2007-03-27 13:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hater....it takes way too much energy to hate someone. After all, you have to have SOME emotion present in order to hate someone. So, it is nothing more than a defensive emotion to help deal with what's really bothering you. If you are hated, you can usually live with it.
2007-03-27 13:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by Smooch The Pooch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hater will have to live with it,
The hated will get over it in a week to ten days.
Think about it?
2007-03-27 13:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by Dylanne 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hater cause they use the hate energy which takes a lot and they also must feel betrayed by the person they hate.
2007-03-27 13:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by experiMENTAL bunny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hater, for sure! This person holds most of the stress and anger that brought on the situation. The hated usually doesn't care and moves on with their life.
This is why I ALWAYS choose my battles wisely! It just brings on more stress that I don't need.
2007-03-27 13:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hater because they keep themselves locked in that mental prison while the hated goes on their way..and the hater is definitely going to reap the hate they have sown into.
2007-03-27 13:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by 1sweet lady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hater. It keeps you awake at night, never let's you have any real peace. Keeps you in a foul mood. Take a deep breath cough up the hate, put it in your hand and blow it away. You'll feel so much better.
2007-03-27 13:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Jaded 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the hater, they are dealing with unresolved issues that the hated probably isn't even aware of. The hater probably thinks about it a lot, it adds stress, causes ulcers, and affects other relationships.
2007-03-27 13:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by Zabes 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i guess the answer depends on how much the hater is hurt first.
like hating hurts the hater--- and if it hurts too much then they can sometimes hurt the hated? yeahh... dont give me point!! lol my answer is so not confident :D
2007-03-27 13:29:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋