I'm considering getting circumcised. I wanted to do it as an aniversery surprise for my wife because she is overseas and i will be able to heal b4 i see her again. I was just wondering what most women would think of this if their husband did it it. Does it make any sexual difference at all? Does it feel any different?
2007-03-27 12:06:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it actually doont feel any different to her but to you it will
2007-03-27 12:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by sweetandthick42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had this problem. If my husband decided to have it done, I would cry. I like him the way he is, but every woman is different. If you're huge and it is affecting your sexual life, then yeah get it circumcised. But, if things are great with the sex life then don't. My advice is that if you have been thinking about it, then your mind is actually made up. A huge percentage of what we cosidering doing is actually put into action. If you want to, then do it. It's totally your decision. I would ask the wife first. After all, she is your wife and is the one your sleeping with. Good luck!
2007-03-27 19:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know the difference because it's been awhile since I' ve been with a man who wasn't circumsised. I think that would be a really big surprise but just remember that there's a reason why parents get it done to their bay babies within days of birth. It is going to hurt REALLY bad. I suppose if I had concerns with it I'd like it if my husband did it. I'd also know how much he'd go through to make me happy. I personally like the appearance of circumcised men over non circumcised, but I think a lot of that is our culture. Good Luck with your decision and if you do it, stock up on pain pills!!
2007-03-27 19:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by Kittieashy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It feels no different for the woman. Getting a cirucumcision, once at the age of a man, is a very drastic surgery, and not without risks. I think if this is the reason you are considering doing this, you may be sorry, and it also may be difficult to find a doctor who would even do it for this reason. Usually men only have this done, if they have health problems, as it is much too drastic an operation, once the patient is no longer a baby. hope this helps.
2007-03-27 19:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
has she ever said she likes it? do you think that she might just be happy with the way you are? Ive been told that its a really painful thing to do so is it worth it in the end to put up with the pain? i recon you can feel the difference but who cares if you are or not she still loves you and she married you not circumcised. shouldnt that be enough? good luck
2007-03-27 19:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by ang r 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesnt feel any different just LOOKS better, plus the added bonus of not giving your wifey a yeast infection, LOL
but seriously, I think sex would be hella better b/c she knows that you did that especially for her... Personal "perks" are sure to follow.. get my drift??
Romantic?? Ummm in a weird way yeah its romantic, but also a little TMI, LOL.. good luck with that...
2007-03-27 19:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by heatherclhn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be a great suprise for her if she has said something to you about it or she dosent like the way you are now. If she dose like it now not a good idea only you would know go with your heart it is the best answer dealing with us women. becouse the head always get you into trouble.
2007-03-27 19:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by Tamera H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Derek, I think you should talk to your wife first. I do not think that I would like that kind of change unless he discussed it with me first. I like my man the way he is....if your woman complains about it then I would suggest that you are doing the right thing but if she has not said anything negative then I would not go through it.
2007-03-27 19:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by LindaLoveLee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are health reasons for this. I think it's fine if you want to do it. Did you ever discuss it with your wife? How does she feel about it? It does not feel any different to the woman.
2007-03-27 19:12:24 · answer #9 · answered by Zelda Hunter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would hate it if my husband did that.I love him just the way he is.I don't want him to change anything,especially something to do with his body.I married him the way he is and I want him to stay that way.I wouldn't go out and get something like that done without talking to him about it first.
2007-03-27 22:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by Carmen D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman, I would love my man the same either way. But technically speaking, uncircimsiced men bring more lubrication to the "party" which makes it easier on us girls if we are not quite aroused enough yet to make it very comfortable.
2007-03-27 19:10:52 · answer #11 · answered by franny 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋