I want to know the honest truth by man so if my husband were to ever cheat on me I would at least get a sign of guilt or a sign at all.
2007-03-27 11:53:28 · 22 answers · asked by dev'smummy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he had any morals, he wouldn't cheat in the first place.
2007-03-27 12:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by QT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the prior years of my marriage I almost cheated on my wife twice. When it almost came down to it I had to stop! D*MN *T! But not later in my marriage, and for different reasons (nothing to do with the wife-but the relationship between us) I would cheat on my wife. Our marriage isn't what it used to be in those past years. We've been married for 23 years now. I almost cheated on her when we were married about 14 years I believe.
I just recently, not looking, met a woman who was beautiful in everyway from personality to emotion to everyway. We started out as friends and as time went past we began having more than just friendship. I must say, we only had an emotional relationship with each other. But I never thought I could find another woman being 49! Because I'm married, she wouldn't take the relationship any further.
I'm trying to get the relationship back to being at least friends again. I just couldn't let her leave me, my emotions wouldn't let her. I've calmed down, now I want that friendship that was so good, too.
2007-03-27 12:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by AlbeFree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have only cheated once in my life and I have to say that it was the worst thing I've ever done. I am now married to woman that I cheated on, and no I never told her because it made me realize that I did not want other woman I wanted her. Just for a point of reference that girl that I cheated on her with was a smok'en hot 19yr old college student that could suck a golf ball through a garden hose, and I hated myself after and still think about all the time.
2007-03-27 12:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know i'm not a man and i apologise. just wanted to share with you the fact that a certain man i know has been known to comment the following in the past..(not saying i condone this, mind!)..1. when asked why a man just wouldnt tell his wife he had cheated (this was an example of when an affair had gone bad) he said, well, why would he? also have been told that if it is there on a plate and your wife isnt there and isnt going to find out, why not? it's not like it means anything... make your own mind up love but i dont think guilt comes into it..
2007-03-27 12:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they feal guilty the first time but after that NO.
Lets face it, if you give your hubby a good reason to go out and cheat,well he will. My wife quit taking care of me 17 years ago, well guess what!!!! I have had many affairs and I do not feel guilty at all. I stayed in the relationship for the sake of my kids. The last one goes to college in one more year. Then guess what will happen, pay back time for the wife. I will be throwing her fat A ss out of the house. MY advice to you women is "TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOUR MAN" and he will not think of cheating on you.....
2007-03-27 14:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a man. But I can tell you I was married to 5 of em. And no they never feel guilty for cheating. They only feel bad if they are caught!
2007-03-27 12:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a sign of guilt might come in the way of him bringing u flowers, or buying u gifts, later on the guilt may turn different, and he may name call, find fault, pick fights, and disrespect u in front of others. the guilt may show if there is silence when u use to talk and be close, guilt may show in avoidance of u, because he can't stand to look at the one he has betrayed.
2007-03-27 12:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no signs at all. For example, can you tell when your hubby had a great meal for lunch or just a crappy sandwich? No you cant unless he tells you. Its no different then if he has a tasty tuna taco for lunch... Why? Because there's no emotional involvement with your lunch date. It's just a nice snack on the side without the extra calories.
However, if he should make the mistake of "falling" for this particular pastry, then, yeah you will notice that. So if you dont notice anything, dont worry... Have a nice snack yourself...
2007-03-27 12:05:20 · answer #8 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not a guy, but my guy didn't at all, even after i confronted him, he was just like it's in the past, move on. and nowadays you'd think that after taking him back he'd appreciate you more, but he's just the same old like nothin ever happened. don't know whats wrong with some of them, but if they had any conscience of guilt they wouldn't in the first place.
2007-03-27 16:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me if i was married i would never ever cheat on my wife i made i vow to honor and to love her for better or for worse so why mess up a good thing.
2007-03-27 12:54:36 · answer #10 · answered by ronald R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are diffrent you can never take one as a speciman you see some would feel guilty others wont so just do your job as a wife & everything will be great.
Good luck
2007-03-27 11:59:23 · answer #11 · answered by kitycat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋