livin in a small desert town in the southern u.s. what will i do?
because these are my dreams, my hopes.
i dont wanna live in a one bedroom flat in manchester for
the rest of my life, on the social.
i cant do anythin at the moment becuz im waitin for therapy.
i suffer with borderline p d.
im 29, but i wont be 29 forever, the clocks ticking, times runnin out.
im agein fast physically.
i genuinly wanna achieve my dreams but donno how im gonna do it....
i have a destination but no road map.
i have no friends or a girlfriend. i specifically wanna choose whi have in my life. ie: the girl i want, the friends i want.
how can i be strong in this situation and work steadly towards my goals?
2007-03-27 11:51:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
you can do anything only if you believe that you can...If you sit here and say oh man...... there's no way i can do this, or that... you know what's gonna happen? Your gonnas stay there..... and i see that thats not something you want to do....if you are changing physically then excersise....ir you need to do therapy then move and got to a place that does it... if you want a girl.... then get u[ take a shower, smell good, open the door and........LOOK FOR HER.. save money right now... then when you REALLY REALLY FOR THE BOTTOM OF YOUR HEART TO THE DEPTHS OF YOUR SOUL YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO DO THIS THEN GO AHEAD AND FLY!!!!!!!!!
peace+love+light
I wish you the best of luck.........
2007-03-27 12:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by The REBELution! 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You can't be sure of anything in life! I mean I hope for things like a nice house, friends and boyfriend, but it just might not happen. Whatever will be will be. U've just gotta be positive bout life and have a positive attitude cos these are the things that others warm too. And like you say, u gotta be strong, but how you go bout it is up to you!
2007-03-28 09:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by :) 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, stop dreaming and go forward and do what you want to do. If you really want these things with all your heart, you have a good chance of achieving them. You strength will come from within.
2007-03-27 20:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by barnowl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the way i see things is
nothing in this life is free, theres always a price for everything. Nobody can live your life for you, if you really want something you have to go for it and achieve it yourself.
you know where you want to be in life, so how are you going to make it happen? work...there must be something you can do, friends can be made anywhere, in a supermarket, on a bus etc.
2007-03-27 19:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by zeldieuk2002 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Take a number and get in line...
2007-03-28 05:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by Taharqa 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
The first step should be brushing up on your writing and communication skills. If this is how you really write and communicate, nobody will ever take you seriously.
2007-03-27 18:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by SpringtimeChristine 3 · 2⤊ 6⤋