Lesbians ONLY!?

Question

What or Why is the reason you do not like guys? is it a physical thing? or simply not atraction? How do or did feel being with a guy sexually? Is like someone invading your body? I am just curious, I am a gay guy, and i love everything about guys, (except PLAYERS).

Answer 1

Rather than telling what I don't like about guys, I'll say ten things I like about girls.

1. They're so soft and warm and smell so good.

2. They're beautiful, absolutely beautiful.

3. Talking to them is so much more rewarding. They aren't afraid to show
their emotions, good or bad.

4. They consider my emotions, and aren't blind to my feelings

5. They pay much more attention to you. When I'm feeling bad, she sees it.
When I'm happy, she sees it. When I get new clothes, she notices, etc.

6. Realize that sex is not the most important part of the relationship, but just
to let you know, it's amazing!

7. Women are affectionate. It feels so nice when she brushes my hair out of
my face, or holds me around my waist

8. Women don't try to discount you're abilities or intelligence. They know that
you have your own talents, and they give you credit for them.

9. Their voices are so great! (I love voices)

10. They have wonderfully wonderful bodies. I mean, wow.

Now...I know that not all women have all of these characteristics, and that some men possess some of them. But, it has been my personal experience that women are great. I hope this helps.

Answer 2

I know you said lesbians only, but, as a former "butch lesbian" so to speak (I'm a female to male transsexual) I think I can interject an opinion here that you may not get from other lesbians.
For me, it wasn't that I didn't find guys attractive. I did, but not in the way that girls find guys attractive to sleep with. When I'd see a guy, I'd think "maaan, I wish *I* could look like that." And as far as guys sexuality, I would think "I wish I had a p*nis like that so that *I* could make love to a girl that way." So, in a way, I guess maybe I looked at guys a lot, (and I still do) to observe their behaviors and things and to learn from them on what it is to be a guy, but I look at them for different reasons than sexual attraction.
Almost all of my friends are guys. I connect with them mentally and I know where they're coming from, because I feel the same way about a lot of things. We have a lot in common. Also though, we have something else in common too..and that's that we both like girls. So for ME..being with a guy, feels like I'm a gay man with another gay man. It just doesn't feel natural to me. Not saying there's anything wrong with gay men, it's just not MY preference (although, I dont know how many times gay guys have thought I was a gay man and hit on me...lol)

Answer 3

Hello
I find that I am attracted physically to men. I can certainly appreciate their physique, especially in any type of uniform (yum). However, I don't connect on an emotional level with men the way I do with women. A few of my best friends I have ever had have been men. I trust and value them and have tons of fun hanging out with them, I just don't fall in love with men the way I do with women. I find with women I fall emotionally for them first. I will be drawn to an aspect of their personality, after that the particular lady I have been drawn to will seem to be the most beautiful person on the planet to me. That's if for me. When I fall I fall hard. I don't know. I have no sexual desire for men, although I do feel attraction to them. On the other hand with women it all follows that first emotional connection. After that I want the whole package from them. Commitment, intimacy, etc. I hope this helps.

Answer 4

It's the same reason why you dont like females. There just isnt that chemical reaction or that spark. At a time when I was a lesbian I liked it but I had to go back to the guys. It was just that one person who I liked and I dont think I would like another girl. I just feel more comfortable with my own gender because I know their secret places where they most likely enjoy. As for guys I'm still not sure. I feel like I know the person better and more like mentally. The person who used to like still have my contact information so I'm not completely over her. Now I like being with guys because I need something on the opposite so I can get used to and I dont have to put up with that emotional s**t. At some points when I was with the girl it didnt feel right but now is where I know I'm suppose to be.

Answer 5

It's the whole package. I mean, i love men as friends. They're great. But i can't connect with them mentally and emotionally and THAT'S what is important in relationships. And physically i still find some men visually attractive (im not blind) BUT i do not desire any sexual activity with them. It's a preference. I prefer the female body, the female mentality, the female characteristics, the female intuition, female sensuality...all things a man cannot give me.

Answer 6

For me, being with a guy sexually felt forced and not enjoyable. However, EVERYTHING with a female came naturally and felt naturally. I love everything about females including being attracted to them. It was just not there for me and guys but i tried to force it.

Answer 7

I love women in every way.. I'm just not physically or sexually attracted to men...

Answer 8

for me, it's a complete disgust for guys sexually. the rest is absolutely fine. friends, collegues - no problem. but a mere thought of us together makes me think i'm being raped. i don't know why.