How can I (cancer) deal with the many...?

Question

I am a cancer and all of the most important people in my life are air signs. My father & grandmother are aquarians, my sister a libra, my best friend an aquarian, and my love interest an aquarian. These are supposed to be a bad mix for a cancer and I fit every cancer trait to a T so why am I most attracted to aquarians?

Answer 1

your personality goes much deeper than your sun sign

You are More than a Sun Sign
The relative positions of all the bodies in our Solar System to each other and their positions within the 12 Zodiac Signs, flavour your basic character that is initially set by the Ruling Planet.
An Astrologer draws your individual Birth Chart, by placing at the exact position in the Zodiac, at the time of your birth - the Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune & Pluto. Some Astrologers will also take into account a variety of Asteroids.

I can not overemphasize how this combination of influences, positions and inter-relationships, shift what a professional Astrologer considers not only for your Character at time of birth but how the chart of past, present & future moments influence your behaviour and reactions to circumstance, what the public think is predicting the future. This is in fact more like forecasting the weather but does have the advantage of totally predictable planetry positions.

Your 'Stars' or Sun Sign column as popular in magazines and web sites, use ONLY the Suns basic position in the Zodiac, it can be uncannily close at times but is only the first of many considerations when it comes to understanding you, your motives, how you react in different situations and of great importance to you - how the predictable positions of planets will influence your future. The interpretation of that comes down to the technical skills and intuitive abilities of the Astrologer.


Cancer and Aquarius Friendship
When Cancer and Aquarius form a friendship, it can be a case of a draw between two opposite ends of the spectrum. Cancer has an emotional approach to life. Aquarius has an offbeat, unconventional approach to nearly every situation. While Cancer may retreat into its shell, Aquarius is the gregarious host among the group of friends and excels in business and social situations. If these two can learn to combine their qualities in a positive way, they can go anywhere together.

Both Cancer and Aquarius can be ambitious and determined. They like to do things their way and don't like to encounter resistance. Cancer appreciates tradition and routine and exhibits conservative morals. Aquarius is modern and is numbed by routine, the dull and the boring. Cancer will find Aquarius exciting yet may feel frustrated trying to penetrate this revolutionary's mind. Aquarius will not appreciate the possessiveness of a pinching Crab but will find the solid base that Cancer can provide to be a great support. They just probably won't want to admit it!

Cancer is ruled by the Moon, and Aquarius is ruled by Saturn and Uranus. The Moon is a radiant, feminine energy and Saturn is a cool, contained masculine energy. Uranus is about all things abnormal and novel. The Moon is emotional, concerned with growth and domesticity, both of which are important to Cancer. Saturn is about hard work and discipline to achieve goals while Uranus symbolizes forward thought. Cancer will teach Aquarius about making decisions based on emotional impulses. Aquarius can teach Cancer to be more detached, to extricate themselves from uncontrollable situations and to re-evaluate goals if they are off course.

Answer 2

You will probably find that you have a moon in aquarius. This determines how you relate to people, and although you will be one hundred per cent cancer, you will admire those aquarian traits. Check a free astrology site to find out.

Answer 3

hey, i'd say go w/ the aquarius guy. the reason you probably admire him is because not only does he have a name that sounds like the watery element you are, but because he's probably showing some traits you father and g-pa had. they both are aquarius and he's aquarius so why wouldnt you fall in love w/ him, you've been so fond of being near people w/ air signs, that you've had to put up w/ their big, brainy ways for so long. it might even be the perfect match.

Answer 4

well you could just say that astrology is bs, but you could also say that Astrology is complicated there is more than just your sun sign, there is also your moon sign and your ascendant sign. You would have to know your birth chart and see why you are attracted to aquarians, but it varies from people to people.... it really depends on the individual person and not just which sign you are

Answer 5

Sweetheart your truely blessed .my gran used to say'We make our own luck in this world (they could not afford a paper in 1915 so it was not horoscopes that help our folk along)It was love a proper family unit pulling together)Iused to believed in them but you way up the person by there loyaly, love, and no-matter what they stick by you comfort, support, good /bad times..you will instantly know whwats right it comes from your heart.i am a cancerian too..we are home makers.

Answer 6

Because Astrology is just a bunch of overgeneralized statements that roughly fit everyone to sell magazines.

Answer 7

Its normal. I am also a cancer and I'm attracted to librans.

Answer 8

most cancers are,their aloofness,makes us curious,their intelligence makes us smile,their sarcasm makes us cry and their independence makes us unsure ,but alas they make fun friends

Answer 9

things just happen and the mystery is never solved

Answer 10

its LOVE, that doesnt depend on fate