this morning my mom said for me to clean my room. so i did , while i was cleaning my room she took a nap. then when she woke up i told her that i was done. and see i had plans with my friend and her mom. but my mom started yelling at me and saying my room looked like crap. so she left and i cleaned some more. then she came home . . . and took off again to the river with all the animals exept for me. PLUS she knew that i love going to the river . it really hurt my feelings and i started to cry. i mean i am only 12. but i want her to feel how i did when she did that to me. i dont want revenge but i want her to feel sorry and kind of hurt. PLEASE HELP ME ASAP! thank you all for you answers.
2007-03-27 11:15:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, your room should be kept neat and clean at all times. I think if you pick up before bed every night, you won't have so much to clean later, you know? Anyway, your mom must have been either sick or tired to take a nap. When you cried, did you tell your mother how you felt about her going to the river without you? Communication is very important. Tell her that when she did that you felt as if she didn't love you or care about your feelings. She may not think it was all that important to you unless you tell her. If your mother is usually sweet to you and just had a bad day, please forgive her. She has feelings, too. If this is happening ALL the time, then I think you should discuss it with your teacher or school counselor or someone you can trust. A friend cannot help, though, because 12 year olds cannot understand what it's like to be a mother and all the pressures your mother feels. So, talk to another adult for better advice. The people here don't know the whole story, you know, only what you tell us. Good luck, honey.
2007-03-27 11:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry to much over this... it really doesn't sound like a big deal... yeah she left you behind but your room was done to suit her... get over it and move on. For all you know it might have been hard for her to come down on you like that. My kids use to think I like being the bad guy all the time. But it is the job of the parent to teach a child that responsibilities come first before fun and pleasures. This may not nbe wha t you wanted to here but this is the truth GF... good luck!!!
2007-03-27 18:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i know what u mean when i was ur age little things like that mean the world to me, whats funny we sometimes do things as adults the is translated wrongly by the children or the other way around, i know ur a young girl but ur old enough to talke to ur mom , ne honest and come out with ur feelings i am sure she loves u and if u talk from ur heart she will feel and and she will be sorrry , now dont be upset everything will be ok :)
2007-03-27 18:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by fofo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything you would regret shes your mom she loves you but after all she should not have done that to you but just be careful and think over what you wanna do before you do something you regret.
2007-03-27 18:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by J_roc got problems 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk to her, maybe shes having a bad day. ask her, and tell her how u feel, but respect her, she is your mother after all, just tell her the way u felt when she did that, adn ask her if shes ok. maybe something is goin on with her. give her a chance, ya never know! good luck!
2007-03-27 18:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by xXx*dixie*xXx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ohh u sound like u have alot of feelings-don't worry my mom does the same thing to me all the time ...like when she gets angry at me she tells me to do something and when i'm done she tells me to do another thing and another at the SAME TIME that's crazy i really don't get parents ,but im not sooo sensative like u soo whatever i don't really care when my mom gets mad at me
2007-03-27 18:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by mermaid2892 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you thought it looked fine and ask her what she thinks should be done to make it look better. Ask her not to get mad, you're trying.
2007-03-27 19:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww hunny... i know how you feel. you should sit talk to her and tell her you really wanted to go and that she really hurt you inside. If you feel akward saying stuff like this to your mom, then u should pray.. I LOVE GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-29 23:22:56 · answer #8 · answered by Lola Hughes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk with her about how that kindof stuff affects you, that kindof stuff happend to me too when i was your age, and it really affected my whole life
2007-03-29 21:56:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋