Please Help Me!
I am stuck between two guys! I want to be friends with them both! One goes to my school and I have known hin since last year. The other goes to a school on the other side of town, but I have known him since 1st grade!
The first wants me to go out with him, but I am sort of going out with the other! I want to be friends with BOTH! If you watch Wildfire, NOT what happened with chris/matt/jr!!!! Please Help Me!!!
2007-03-27 10:59:32 · 9 answers · asked by Ember! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They don't know each other personaly! The one that I'm sort of going out with is the one that I've known since 1st grade!
2007-03-27 11:10:03 · update #1
I am in the 7th grade and 13 in about a week. Sort of going out means, supervized dates, both of our families. We will go to the shooting range, out to eat of just something like that. I really like both of them!
2007-03-27 11:24:09 · update #2
O.K., this "sort of going out" isen't really BF/GF. Atleast I don't consider it that way. And I don't think that he does either. (Ok so mabey a little! So what!)
2007-03-28 14:31:07 · update #3
They will know each other personaly soon, at my 13th Birthday Party!
2007-03-28 14:32:09 · update #4
First, u seem to cheat yourself! How can u like both of them? May be you mean you can not choose? OK, anyway, at your age, it is not easy, mostly emotion dominates. Sit down and decide on what you want. And u only knows. Then, take one, cause friendship with two may cause them to collide. Would you like to harm any? I guess no! So decide on one. It is a matter of honesty
2007-04-04 03:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by Myway 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you're already "sort of" going out with one guy, then you have made a committment to him and just being friends with the other guy shouldn't be a problem. All you can do is let the guy you haven't known as long know that although you like him, it would be like cheating on the other guy to date him right now and you're sure he wouldn't want you to do that to him if the situation was reversed.
2007-03-27 18:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing you don't do is to go out with both and be cheating. You should maybe ask them some questions through a conversation and see who knows the most about you. You should also see how much you have in common with each other. Who do you like more? It's really a tough situation.
2007-03-27 18:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which one are you sort of going out with? The friend that you've known since 1st grade seems to be your friend already and knows and accepts you. The other one wants to get to know you. I say let both of them know you want to be only friends for now.
2007-03-27 18:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by I AM 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well since you are not really dating any of the two....no problem....You've known one of them for a very long time so whatever you are thinking of doing you should be first honest with cause i have the feeling that he really likes you....
2007-04-04 14:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by Tsigio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay if both guys know each other that you should sit down with the both of them and tell them that you would like to be friends with both and if they truly like you they will respect your opinnions.
2007-03-27 18:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by Rosy Bear 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pick wich ever one is cuter. That's whut i would do.
2007-04-04 17:47:48 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all don't write too much cause ppl are too lazy to read all that
2007-03-27 18:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by mermaid2892 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell the first guy that you would rather be his friend than his girlfriend
2007-03-27 18:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by wolf's rain 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋