I have been together with my boyfriend for 2 years. it is going well. but we never talk about the future. i don't want to start choosing our children's names (we're in are early 20s). But i would like to know if he sees us having a future together. how can i bring this up without scaring him? Any advice would be great. Thanks x
2007-03-27 10:53:05 · 6 answers · asked by shazza_77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the easiest way to bring it up is to just point blank start asking questions. if he wants to talk he will and if he doesn't then he will make that clear.
2007-03-27 10:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bring it up and start talking about it in a quite intimate moment..
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2007-03-27 10:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bring it up casually.
For example, let's say he says, "I saw this little boy fall on his bike today." That gives you the opportunity to bring up the future. You can say something like, "Aww what would you do if that was OUR kid?" You know, something like that.
It wouldn't be totally random and he won't be totally thrown off by it. Depending on his reaction, you can tell what he thinks about your future together. : }
2007-03-27 10:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell him straight up. It wouldn't be the very first thing I'd wanna talk about but you should be able to talk to him about anything.
2007-03-27 11:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-30 21:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by victor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you bring it up slowly like start out with :
i wonder what it would be like if we were married
2007-03-27 10:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋