I have this friend and shes a great friend and today she called me a retard because in school when we were in art i asked her opion on a penguin i made and she said it was ugly so i got mad and went to sit with another girl and now i think she hates me help all my friends are turning on me pleese help me!!!!
2007-03-27 10:31:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
people we are 10 years old and it was paper machie oh and i knowen the girl since seconde grade and we neaver been in a fight and she a great person so pleese help.
2007-03-27 10:47:00 · update #1
If you still care about this friend of yours, you should go up to her and confront her about this issue. Tell her that her friendship means alot to you, and you'd never wanna lose a friend like her and that you just didn't like the way she insulted and mocked the drawing that meant so much to you, or you worked really hard on. You should sort things out with her. And tell her that she means alot more to you than the girl you sat next to. And that you wer just 'slightly' mad. I'm sure she'd understand. Goodluck!
2007-03-27 10:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by Kagome 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now it appears that you are in an argument with your friend. Normally arguments blow over, and I bet if you went up and talked to her tomorrow she will be fine. If you want to keep this friendship, all you have to do is apologize for "freaking out the other day" or whatever way you want to word it. This girl, if she is truly your friend, should accept it. However, any "friend" that out and out calls your drawing ugly and then when you become upset calls you a retard may not actually be a friend (so beware). And if all your friends are "turning on you" it may be that your interests are changing, or you are maturing while they remain stuck in the rut of girl drama. Either way, maybe you should start investing your time with other people you have interests with, and they might turn out to be better friends than your current "friends". Even if everything is fine between your current friends soon, it's always nice to have backup people to talk to.
2007-03-27 17:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by ♫ Melody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? That`s besides the point, BUT I find this to be quiet immature. Turning their back on you because of a drawn penguin? Some people just need to get over themselves. Life is too short to stress over tiny things like that. Tell them that it`s extremely immature to hold a grudge because of your honest opinion.
Seriously, in five years, will any of you or your friends remember that this even happened?
2007-03-27 17:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by L0VE . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like you have some immature friends if they would stop liking you bc you went to sit with someone else. i had that issue in junior high, and i just stayed sitting with the people who were nice and supportive of me. its good to get new friends when little issues like that happen. maybe they werent your goof friends to begin with. on the other hand, they could just be jealous that you sat with someone else, and are being mean as a defense mechanism. ask them whats going on. a face to face convo is all that can solve this. or email her asking whats up.
2007-03-27 17:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by Abby R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to understand that in this world one will receive complimentary and uncomplimentary comments thus you should respect what others have to say. Besides, it was you who asked her for her opinion thus you should not get upset; it was afterall her honest opinion. I'm sure you prefer honest opinions then someone who compliments you all the time and are fakes.
2007-03-27 17:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think she wasn't a true friend to begin with, if she was truly your friend she wouldn't have had gotten mad over something like that and more less move. She's not your true friend, and anyways your better off alone less drama and less problems
2007-03-27 17:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two solutions
1. Talk to your friends and ask if they are mad at you and if they are work something out
2. If they are mad at you and hate for sitting at another table, thet aren't your real friends!
2007-03-27 17:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to take constructive criticism! also dont be such a prick, grow up and stop whining about your problems.
2007-03-27 17:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by jg072 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think yall shouldnt be frends no mo if she gets mad for somthin as dumb as this yall arent real frends
2007-03-27 17:38:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was just telling the truth if you cab handle it oh well
2007-03-27 17:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋