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and i'm 15!! i'm so scared!! i don't know what to do! how can i tell my parents!! do i need to go see a doctor or what!! i have no idea what to do about ANY of this!!

2007-03-27 10:20:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

21 answers

You need to tell your parents honey. everything will be ok God is watching over you. Good Luck

2007-03-27 10:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by T H 1 · 0 1

First of all, you're 15. You're just a child. You shouldn't be having sex. If you're not ready to raise a child, then you're not ready to be having sex. that's the whole purpose of sexual intercourse (main reason). It's sad to see teenagers fall into the sex scene at such a young age. I lost my virginity 2 weeks before my 18th birthday and I wasn't even ready.

Second. RESPONSIBILITY!!! Come on!! Seriously. You should have been put on birth control and had the male use protection! and withdrawal is NOT a form of protection. (im not saying you used withdrawal). Even if the male doesn't *** inside of you, there's still a substance called precum which carries sperm in it. you really should have thought about all the consequences and the responsibilities about sex before you started to participate in it.

third, go buy a pregnancy test. and take it in the morning right when you wake up. your urine has the most hormones in the morning. if it comes out that you're pregnant, you really need to sit your parents down and have a nice long talk. there's no better way to tell them except by being completely honest. No matter how much it hurts or how scared you are. I'm sure your parents will help you out even though they're going to be angry. Over time, they'll adjust...if you're lucky.

If it comes out that you're not pregnant and you do start your period, i hope this is a lesson to you and I hope that you learn to be more responsible in the future. I suggest you put off having sexual intercourse until you're at least 18, but then again, children these days don't really listen nor do they really learn. If you aren't pregnant, you should talk to your parents anyhow and ask them to put you on birth control. that you've been sexually active and want to take caution and be responsible.

Good Luck

2007-03-27 10:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by Kiri 3 · 1 0

First of all, what makes you think you're pregnant?? I know that when I first started having sex, I had some pregnancy scares, because I had an irregular period. Talk to anyone you're comfortable with. If you are pregnant, you need to tell your parents, no matter what. They may be disappointed, but hopefully they will be supportive. If you are pregnant seeing a doctor is a good idea.

2007-03-27 10:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by hart2756 2 · 2 0

Well The first thing I think you should do it calm down and not worry or over think things too much. Try to get to a store and pick up a pregnancy test. They are easy to use and dont cost a lot. Take the test before you worry. If it DOES come back positive then you should tell your mom so that you dont continue to stay stressed out the entire time you are thinking about it. Your mother will know how to help you and to assist you in seeking medical care. Find out if youre pregnant , then just talk to your mom. You may be scared but she will help :)

2007-03-27 10:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kristina R 2 · 1 0

Take a test, they are available from most stores these days. What makes you think you are pregnant? I've just looked at some of your previous questions and if it's just a late period it MAY be down to your eating disorder, or even stress from your Ma & life in general. However I would recommend testing yourself before going to tell your parents, even to the extent of going to the doctors on your own - they can't (as far as I am aware) tell your parents due to dr/patient confidentiality. If you are pregnant then with all due respect I would tell your Dad first as to me your Mum is putting far too much pressure on you (previous question). The downside to that is that you would end up telling it twice, if you tell them together it at least gets the announcement out of the way in one go. Good luck hun x

2007-03-27 10:43:18 · answer #5 · answered by WaftyCrank 4 · 0 0

1.) You can go to your nearest pharmacy/drug store and buy a pregnancy test.

2.) Go see a doctor or go to a free clinic. Some clinics may offer free pregnancy testing. Laws have changed. A lot of clinics hospital look at the well being of you first. Doctors and nurses keep what you may tell them between you and them, and if you are pregnant, you can also elect to have them present when you tell your parents about your pregnancy.

Try not to worry and I hope and pray that your parents will be understanding.

2007-03-27 10:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by SMILES6184 1 · 1 0

I had a friend when I was in school that had a baby at 14. Its not easy but she still went thru high school with A's and got her nursing degree after that. Tell your parents right away. They may be mad at first but in the end they will come around and want what is best for you. And if you decide to go thru with the pregnancy and keep the baby don't think that its the end of your future. My friend is living proof that you can have a baby at a young age and still acheive a good career. I hope you have a lot of suport no matter what happens. Good luck!

2007-03-27 10:32:05 · answer #7 · answered by Blipp 2 · 1 0

If you had unprotected sex and have missed your period or are late, than you could be pregnant. You should go buy a home pregnancy test at a drug store and take it. If it comes out positive than you have no choice but to tell your parents. You never know, they might be more suportive than you think. Also, if the test shows two lines and the second one is faint, its still a positive. Good luck sweetie and i hope everything goes well for you and you get the answer you want.

2007-03-27 10:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by ** ButterFlyAngel ** 2 · 1 0

Then you shouldn't be having sex yet if you can't handle these things. Seriously, you need to get a home pregnancy test and find out for sure. Then you need to talk to your parents, if you are pregnant they are going to find out eventually. Even if you are not pregnant you still need to tell them you are sexually active so that they can help you get birth control pills and condoms. You also need to see a doctor whether you are pregnant or not, you might have STDs that you don't know about since you've been having unprotected sex. Good luck with everything.

2007-03-27 10:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

You should of think of this BEFORE!!!! Now before you panic more make sure you are pregnant buy a EPT test it will tell you even days before your missing period and you will see if you are or not... I f you are then you will need to tell the father and ur mom and dad and make an apointment with th DR,,,,,If NOT first of thank GOD, second next time PROTECT your self to avoid another bad time , unless you are ready to be a mom at 15 ... IF yo don't want a BIG responsability then be responsible of your acts believe me , having a baby it is a huge responsability and will carry you with lots a work and will not have time for you anymore , babies are lovely but when you are ready to be a parent ....I you are not enjoy your teenage years...have fun and don't make mistakes and whenever you are ready to have a baby you will enjoy it !!!! Best wishes !!!

2007-03-27 10:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

first you should take a test. know for sure. If you are then you need to decide if you want a baby or not. Then go and have a sit down talk with your parents. Trust me they wont be as mad as you think. I thought my parents would kill me, literally! I was 20 and it was an accident, but when I told them they said well its a bit upsetting, but what can you do now, whats done is done. My daughter was one of the best blessings in the world, my 2 other kids were the other blessings. I wasnt sure if I ever wanted kids, but God had other plans for me!! Now i couldnt be happier!

2007-03-27 10:28:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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