Do they view it as an intimidation to their own masculinity or what? Or is it that they always show the "femme lesbian" (although I think most of them aren't even real lesbians) in porn and that's what guys view as "sexy"? I just don't get it.
Also, why are straight men homophobic towards gay men, but they're ok with two lesbians together? I mean if you're gonna be homophobic shouldn't you be homophobic and not selectively homophobic?
2007-03-27 10:18:57 · 3 answers · asked by I_color_outside_the_lines 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
As a straight may I say that I like pretty women?
So I find it easier to relate to women who like pretty women.
I'm not attracted to guys, but I'm willing to admit some are handsome. So I can understand why some (men or women) are attracted.
It really comes down to how we are a culture obsessed with beauty.
If you had the option of bedding the celebrity of your choice, how would you react?
2007-03-28 11:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked this 7 times so you are getting my answer 7 times:
Actually it is simply this: no straight man believes deep down in his heart that any really good looking girl would ever be completely lesbian because [1] they are hot [2] they can get sex from any guy they want [3] straight guys would love to get sex from any woman they wanted as much as they could therefore these girls must like guys somewhat because they can get them and get sex. Butch girls do not have the same options so they are believable as lesbians. Gay men it is believed are men in all respects except all their sexual energy is focused towards guys which means they are thinking of guys and sex with guys almost all the time since straight men are thinking of girls and sex with girls almost all the time.
May sound shallow but that is the basic rationale behind the thinking. As for 2 hot lesbians with each other, the belief is that the guy is going to be invited to join in, which makes it great. Someone had a question here a few months back about the why guys like 2 lesbians together but not 2 guys and I gave a similar answer.
2007-03-29 17:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by seandashark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked this 7 circumstances so which you're becoming my answer 7 circumstances: relatively it particularly is purely this: no right now guy believes deep down in his heart that any relatively sturdy looking female might ever be thoroughly lesbian by using fact [a million] they're warm [2] they might get intercourse from any guy they want [3] right now adult adult males might choose to get intercourse from any lady they needed as much as they might as a result those ladies ought to like adult adult males fairly by using fact they might get them and get intercourse. Butch ladies don't have a similar thoughts so they're attainable as lesbians. gay adult adult males it particularly is believed are adult adult males in all respects different than all their sexual capability is focused in direction of adult adult males which ability they're thinking of adult adult males and intercourse with adult adult males almost each and all the time for the reason that right now adult adult males are thinking of girls folk and intercourse with ladies almost each and all the time. may appear shallow yet that's the person-friendly reason in the back of the thinking. As for 2 warm lesbians with one yet another, the assumption is that the guy is going to be invited to connect in, which makes it great. somebody had a query right here some months lower back suitable to the why adult adult males like 2 lesbians at the same time yet no longer 2 adult adult males and that i gave a similar answer.
2016-10-20 02:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋