i feel soo bad.could u help??

Question

i do not know why all this happens to me all the guys at my school r making fun of me and my parents r always angry at me they love my sister more than me because she is smarter. could u imagin that i have never had a best friend in my whole life u know how ti feels when u do not have any one to trust or even talk with i have so many problems in my life and i need help i need some one to talk with PLEASE

Answer 1

Hi there...

Look, if you accept an advise from an older brother, then here it is... You seem too delicate and sensitive, and maybe that makes you imagine some wrong or fake things. No parents love the smarter boy or girl. Parents love the more similar to them girl, the more polite girl, etc. Besides, who said that you are less smart. Everybody has his or her own unique sides that cannot be imitated by someone else, and the whole secret is that you must try to dig deeply into yourself to discover it. Maby you are good at drawing and bad at maths, maybe good at writing and bad at grammar, maybe good at cooking and bad at social contacts, .... etc. Believe me, none is bad at everything. Our Creator is always fair with us all. So,,,, try to discover your real self. Try to find why you can't have real friends. Maybe you are too much frank, maybe you are too much jealous, maybe you are too much sensitive,, r maybe even you do have a friend who really loves and admires you but you are not able to discover her true friendship because you are trying to take everything too quickly and targetting some other more attractive (but less true) friends. Who knows?

My final advise to you: Be yourself, but first discover it.

Answer 2

I can understand you and let me tell you it's not only you in this world who felt that feeling, but many great people had the same problem in their lives and later they became someone who may attract everybody to at least listen to them or shake their hands.
You need a new way of thinking to avoid much disappointment in your life.
I expect that I am older than you, but you can consider me as a friend and contact me if you like. I am always looking for new friends from everywhere and all ages.

Answer 3

You need to do some self searching. People usually feel bad about themselves because they have lost their sense of identity.
Write a list with all of the problems you think you have. After that write a list of possible solutions to each problems. Remember, you are looking for constructive and positive solutions.
After the list are complete, figure out a 1 week, 1 month, 1 year, and 5 to 10 year plan for your life.
I think if you figure out some goals you will develop your identity again and began to feel better about life.