!if a guy stares at you every day in class and on the bus, does it mean they like you? what are they thinking?is it good?
2007-03-27 10:07:13 · 9 answers · asked by abbi 2 in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
This is three questions:
1) Does he like me?: He doesn't know. He is probably attracted to you, but doesn't know if he can approach you (whether from fear or from intimidation). Go over to him and say "hi" and mention you saw him looking at you (be nice, just mention it casually). Then get to know him. If he isn't you kind of guy, then say "Nice to meet you" and avoid him after that (don't need to encourage people you don't like).
2) What is he thinking? He isn't thinking anything. Beleive me when I say this. Men don't think like girls do. He is probably trying to convince himself something about you that is either a) wrong, b)unrealistic, or c)sexual. If he manages to succeed in this he'll either give up or go talk to you. If he chose 'a' he'll quickly determine he was wrong and leave you alone out of embarrassment. Best bet is to follow my advice in my first part of this answer and cut him off from the chance to make a fool out of himself.
3) Is it good? That's a toughie. I'll say yes, it is good. It means that his eyes like to look at you. It means that for whatever reason he likes looking at you he does it enough that you noticed. Now that he got your attention, if HE doesn't act on it then he'll eventually lose interest and drift away unless YOU make a move.
Bottom Line: Be friendly, not agressive. Introduce yourself and get to know him without the 'staring'. If he keeps staring afterwards, then you can be more forceful about whether you want it to continue or stop.
2007-03-27 10:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by MrDave2176 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
First off, how old are you? If youre like in high school, then maybe the guy thinks your intensly HOT!!!!!!!!!!!! but then again if he stares at you allllll the time, that would be kind of awkard. The best way to find out is if you talk to him. See in my opinion guys stereotype girls. All the sluts are mean and try to be b******. All the nice girls are nice and would'nt be mean. So if a slut came upto me and started talkin to me, I would ignore her. And so on. if youre not in high school or middle school, you shouldnt be on the internet.
2007-03-27 17:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by popnbrown 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely absurd for you to ask this question in Internet section.
Just Bullshitting, yes he probably likes you.
2007-03-27 17:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by Parercut Faint 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, they probably find you attractive and like to look at you. That's an odd way to approach lust though, they might just be trying to get your attention
2007-03-27 17:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by drek2644 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if i stare at a girl it's because i like her. this guy definitely likes you.
2007-03-27 17:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by mrrosaclass00 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
mo it means just the opposite
2007-03-27 17:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by Corporate King™ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well yes...but don't be scared to ask your friend if he/she can ask the guy if he likes you..or maybe they are thinking to ask you out....and YES this is really good!!!!
good luck to the both of you guys!!!!!!!!!!!!:)
2007-03-27 17:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by casey4786 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are asking this in the wrong section...geeks dont stare at girls
2007-03-27 17:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by phoenix_61_98 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well sure it could be possible. they could be fantasizing on special events between the both of you
2007-03-27 17:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋