Do they view it as an intimidation to their own masculinity or what? Or is it that they always show the "femme lesbian" (although I think most of them aren't even real lesbians) in porn and that's what guys view as "sexy"? I just don't get it.
2007-03-27 10:05:02 · 2 answers · asked by I_color_outside_the_lines 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You asked this 7 times so you are getting my answer 7 times:
Actually it is simply this: no straight man believes deep down in his heart that any really good looking girl would ever be completely lesbian because [1] they are hot [2] they can get sex from any guy they want [3] straight guys would love to get sex from any woman they wanted as much as they could therefore these girls must like guys somewhat because they can get them and get sex. Butch girls do not have the same options so they are believable as lesbians. Gay men it is believed are men in all respects except all their sexual energy is focused towards guys which means they are thinking of guys and sex with guys almost all the time since straight men are thinking of girls and sex with girls almost all the time.
May sound shallow but that is the basic rationale behind the thinking. As for 2 hot lesbians with each other, the belief is that the guy is going to be invited to join in, which makes it great. Someone had a question here a few months back about the why guys like 2 lesbians together but not 2 guys and I gave a similar answer.
2007-03-29 17:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by seandashark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're looking at the fems as sex objects and not as lesbians, so they just stare. They look at butches and apply every negative stereotype they've ever heard.
2007-03-27 16:46:37 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋