I would like to be kissed every day but my hubby doesnt respond the way i would like him to and yes i have spoken to him and yes i have just taken him and done it but the response is sh..... Even doing you know what i would like a bit more of the old kissy kissy i love it and i dont get enough and im not happy about it does any one else feel they could do with a wee bit more lipsmackin it makes me really frustrated and annoyed that my smoochin days are limited is this odd or normal.i mean im not horrible or yuk and i make the most of my assessts we love each other so whats the problem.
2007-03-27 10:02:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yea, I have the same problem with my fiance. We kiss every day but mostly just hello, goodbye, good morning, goodnight and "thanks honey, dinner was great". I've talked to him about it but it hasn't really changed anything. I would like more just-for-fun passionate kisses but I have accepted that this is just not his way. I think his family wasn't very affectionate when he was growing up.
2007-03-27 10:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess some men are like that I really thank God mine isn't he kisses me about 7-10 times a day when we are together Some just quick smooches and then some longer ones we have been together about a total of 10 years married for 5 almost 6. When he first gets up in morning he comes over to wake me up with a kiss and a cup of coffee. Life is good. Maybe you need to ask your husband why he does not want to kiss. I really need this in my life and it sounds like you do too. Good luck I am sure things will work out for you.
2007-03-27 10:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by nthernlites40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been married 7 years and my husband kisses me when I am asleep to say goodbye for work every morning. We probably kiss about 5-10 times a day. I always tell him I love him about 3 times out of the blue. And also everytime we hang up the phone. Everytime we are in the same room I hold his hand. It helps to keep us close. If he doesn't do it, just start doing it, he'll catch on.
2007-03-27 10:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by Mesha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't like kissing, its true. Some don't like chocolate, too! Maybe you should try kissing him first, if he backs away or something, then there may be a problem...you should talk about it. And tell him you want to be kissed, maybe he will reveal something you are unaware of. Also, there are other ways to show affection besides kissing. So, maybe it will help if you start to notice other sweet things between the two of you besides the hollywood smooches ;)
2007-03-27 10:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by KatE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years every time one of us lives the house we kiss and same thing when we come back at night before we say goodnight we kiss and when we wake up we kiss most of the time when we are at home we kiss i couldn't see my self with out kissing him for a day even when we are mad at each other we wont kiss during the day but before we go to sleep and say good night we kiss.
2007-03-27 10:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by Patty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband kisses me every single day. Was he like this before you got married?? If he was, why did you even settle? Kissing is just as important as sex in a marriage. It is just another form of intercourse. Just like you can have passionate sex, you also have passionate kisses.
I feel very sorry for you. You are really missing out. What is his reason for not wanting to kiss you the way you want him to.
Maybe pamper him with a nice dinner, nice dessert, and lay him on your bed and give him the massage of his life, but a blindfold on him and seduce him, with feathers, with your fingers, anything that would feel good to the touch. Give him light kisses everywhere on him starting on his face. Tease him until the point where he wants to do nothing but have a hot make out session. Just reconnect with him and can reconnect with you. Somewhere in the marriage, you two were disconnected.
2007-03-27 11:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner rarely kisses me either. Some men just don't care about kissing?
2007-03-27 10:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by LDR02 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We probably kiss an anywhere from 10 - 20 times a day.
We kiss when we wake up, after saying our prayer in the morning, before we leave for work, when we get back, before going to bed, preparing dinner, during sex, anytime we have a chance.
2007-03-27 10:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by ???///??? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a long distance relationship, and only get to see my sweetie on the weekends, if that. I don't know if that makes a difference or not, but we kiss all the time; constantly. I think when we are together, we spend 99% of the time with our lips pressed together. I couldn't imagine it any other way. Sorry for you lack of smooching. Try talking to him again, it couldn't hurt.
2007-03-27 10:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever since I got married a year ago everytime I kiss him he just pecks and turns his head I get very mad then he'll kiss me alittle longer then moves his head again soo annoying just don't kiss him for a while I know its hard because I love to show affection but show him how you feel if he even notice's it.
2007-03-27 11:47:44 · answer #10 · answered by dev'smummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋