well me and my boyfriend are trying out for a baby, and it seems like we have sex right, but when i take the test it always says negative?? what is the problem? my period comes on every month, and we really want a baby. please hep me? what are some of the steps so I can get pregant?
2007-03-27 09:52:48 · 8 answers · asked by audrey p 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I took two tests and it says negative, but you can see another line, but it is not as strong as the 1st line? am I really? or is it not true?
2007-03-27 09:58:10 · update #1
go to the doctor. it could be either of you. your boyfriend may not produce enough sperm or something could be wrong with you. try once more then go to the doctor. you might be wasting your time trying. sorry.
2007-03-27 09:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by Eliza 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to relax. You may be thinking too much about it. I remember when my ex and I were trying, it just wasni't happening. It was all I thought about and that's all I would have sex for. Once we broke up and I dated someone else, after only 4 months I became pregnant. I was with my ex for 4 1/2 years. I thought something was wrong with me, but I guess God just didn't have it in His plan for my ex and I to concieve. This may not be your case. I was told that the average woman gets pregnant after 7 cycles, so maybe you need more time. I say if your not pregnant within a year, go see a specialist. Good luck on trying and I hope you become a mommy soon.
~8 weeks and counting:)
2007-03-27 17:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by favoritegyrl21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you have sex every day or every other day starting at day 10 of your cycle through day 22. Unless you ovulate earlier or later.
www.babyhopes.com has an ovulation predictor calendar that will help you figure out when you should ovulate - make sure you are having sex around that time - the more sex you have the better your odds.
2007-03-27 16:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you should both get tested for fertiliy, but if that's not the problem, try using a different position as sometimes the females womb is tilted thus allowing fert. only in certain positions. also, don't try too hard as this may hinder your attempt.
2007-03-27 17:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by mike_dooley49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres really no way of knowing if its him or you or if maybe your just not getting lucky!!! My husband and i got pregnant by mistake but..ive read that if you have sex every night and then after you have sex...tilt your pelvis upwards so that the sperm can travel deeper faster..i hear that works. Um...try to put some pillows under your behind after you have sex too and then that will also help it travel deeper! Good luck!!!
2007-03-27 16:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a question best answered by your own personal medical professional. Your Dr. can examine you and your boyfriend and advise you of any issues and/or options available to help you.
2007-03-27 17:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by â??Markâ?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you did a test and had two lines but one is much fainter then you could be pregnant that's if you have actually miss a period already.
good luck
2007-03-27 17:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by Sam W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thank God you haven't gotten pregnant. The first step is
GET MARRIED.
2007-03-27 16:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Twinkle♥Toes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋