hi,
I would like to know ur opinions concerning this problem of mine...sometimes when I try to get to know someone (a boy), I try to be friendly to them but I think they get scared of that and stay away..like for example if I found a guy that I hardly know on facebook, I might add him, but still we're not that close??
Am I weird or something or do I sometimes rush into things?
How can I take things slowly a lil bit
2007-03-27 09:47:58 · 17 answers · asked by what goes around comes around 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Don't try to force yourself on them. Guys are drawn into a challenge- be mysterious and let them wonder if YOU like them for a change. It works like a charm.
2007-03-27 09:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jacky S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're not weird don't worry. Whatever age you are, if your still in school say hi to him one day randomly then aftr a while u might start having a full on convo. you could say o i like your shirt. some good relationships have started on myspace and facebook (and i don't mean by pedifiles). I started talkin to my boyfriend on myspace even though i had never talked to him before that, i would only see him in church or at school. No you aren't trying to rush into things by adding him on facebook you are just trying to get to know him. If boys are running away from you, then they aren't meant to be the right guy for you. They are probably just immature. I hope this helps and good luck !!
2007-03-27 09:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you may be rushing it, you may not! To me your just trying to be nice. Just don't come on too strong. Be yourself, and see if they like you for you, i know that's common advice, but it's true! and trust me, you probably aren't weird, just people may think your way of getting to know one is rushing it a bit. Just act natural and be yourself, and let life roll with you and see what happens! Hope this helped! <3
2007-03-27 09:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by ♪♥First To Fall Last To Know♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't met in person, there is no basis for thinking that he wouldn't be scared of you. You could actually be a 45 year old man posing as a woman on here. Did you ever think of that?
2007-03-27 09:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by Scotch Tape 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what Facebook is, but it sounds like an online thing. I'd try to go more reality than looking for someone online.
2007-03-27 09:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by Ron B. 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You probably come across intimidating, especially if your very confident and forward. Or maybe the guy you like likes you back but is the shy type and gets all quiet around you.
2007-03-27 09:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to meet people in real life not on facebook.
2007-03-27 09:51:56 · answer #7 · answered by Joey B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go natural?
Meet who you want to meet in PERSON! Not in cybernetworks like facebook and myspace...there are too many "distractions" around!
2007-03-27 09:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by Shark 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Meet someone face to face, and don't try to meet them over the internet.
Especially as you can't spell the word 'your'.
2007-03-27 09:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends were you are meeting them, most men I think are just looking to get laid. if you aresending other messages then that could be why they go away. I doubt it's your fault, just keep trying.
2007-03-27 09:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by paul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋