what can you do if your not physically perfect?

Question

im 29, and in the face, im ageing quite rapidly.
im balding badly, i have 2 missing, front, lower teeth.
i really do worry how im ever gonna find someone nice, someone that i choose, a young girl in her 20s?
does any other guy got this problem?.
i wont lower my standards and just accept anyone...someone older or maturer. no i wont. hell would freeze over 1st.
i want someone who i choose, but im worried i wont be able to get any girl like this because of how i look

Answer 1

firstly no one is physically perfect so get that preconception out of your head,secondly,looks are not the be all and end all,if you are married to a beautiful but boring and unstimulating woman..what would happen when her looks faded because looks do fade,the spirit doesn't,if you are a good person use that attribute to attract woman,don't worry about what's on the outside,a good woman respects a good man regardless of the exterior,be proud of who you are and when you least expect..she'll be there!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

If there is something bugging you and you're not sure what it is the best thing is to fix one thing at a time until you feel the problem is fixed. I would start with the teeth. When you feel comfortable in your own skin you will find it much easier to attract a mate.

Btw 'hot chic' is far too loose a term, you might pop along to guardian soulmates and sign up there. It won't help you find someone, but it will enable you to think about what you are looking for in a partner.

Answer 4

To begin with, there are plenty of women out there who are more interested with what a man does to take care of himself rather than his natural looks. Balding can be very sexy as long as you keep your hair trimmed and stuff like that. Alas, women in their early twenties are usually looking to have more physical relationships, where looks matter. You may want to reconsider your age specifications to at least mirror your own age, 29. People are almost always attracted to people similar to themselves, which is another reason you should take good care of yourself. If you're going to have high standards for somebody, make sure you meet them first. You should have no problem finding a nice girl in her twenties, but she most likely won't be prettier than you, and probably won't be in her early twenties, but her older twenties. Don't exclude the older twenties girls because of their age, just like they shouldn't exclude you because of yours.

P.S. - Try to take care of the teeth first, it shows an interest in personal upkeep. If money is a problem, start saving and get it together!

Answer 5

If you are concerned about how a girl looks then do you not think it might be a bit hypocritical not to care about how you look. You can work on the way you look like eating healthily and working out to overcome some of your negative features. You also need to think about your character and what you're willing to give to a relationship not just what you can get out of one. The older you get, the harder it will be to get your pretty 20 year old hot girl. Don't forget that they've got standards too which they probably won't be willing to drop either.

Answer 6

Get your teeth fixed, it's a bit expensive but well worth it. Don't worry about the baldness, my husband is bald and for years I have watched women throw themselves at him, when they go in his office. They're attracted to him, not because he's particularly buff or handsome, but because he's intelligent, kind and considerate...things all women like. He has beautiful eyes that reflect his kind and loving personality. When we got married I was 20 and he was 37, and we've been married for 25 yrs. and still in love. Work on cultivating a positive outlook and being a good person, and you won't have to look for a woman--they'll come to you.

Answer 7

Well shave your head that way its your choice to be bald -- go to the dentist and get some fake teeth -- and some men look good older -- just exercise regularly and eat healthy -- you'll notice a change in not only you're looks but your self confidence as well.

Answer 8

Well people should love you for you in an ideal world.

A women in her 20's won't appreciate you and judge you on your appearence. Most people these days like looks verse personality but then again if they get past your looks you'll be fine.

I'm sure you'll find someone that wil like you for you and she'll see past it all. Once you stop worrying about it and prove you have more to offer you'll be fine! Trust me!

Answer 9

theres nothing wrong with keeping up your standards but there are fab girls out there, not looking but their personalities outshine any beauty try getting your teeth sorted a good dentist can sort that ,as for balding havent you noticed most men shave their hair these days so follow trend and no one will know your balding .go on do something to yourself don't let your personal standards slip good luck with smartening yourself up YOU CAN DO IT

Answer 10

i would like to think that you would find the girl of your dreams regardless of appearance, and i do believe you will, i am a woman and a lot of us can be really shallow, however beauty really does come from within and the main thing is to meet a like minded individual with whom you can share a life, but if you are worried that people will judge you on appearannce then please dont judge them, which worried me a little with your observations about "settling " or "hell would freeze over" you reap what you sew.