He told me he was over his past relationship but i don't think so, an it hurts to know he still want to remember her.
2007-03-27 09:37:46 · 9 answers · asked by kat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I appreciate all your answers but something that corcerns me is that is not only pictures (he denied he had them) also a tape where you she is asking him to make love to her, I just discover that today and I am really bother for that.
2007-03-27 09:50:24 · update #1
Are you kidding me? Do you *ever* think about a past boyfriend or lover? Probably.
Why is it so different keeping a physical picture (and tape) than a mental picture or "film"?
Are you feeling insecure, like you can't offer him as much as she could? Or are you always like this?
If he's keeping pictures, so what. If he's still got a relationship with her that you don't know about, that's totally different, huh?
take care
2007-03-29 11:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by SEMblogger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that by having pictures of his ex-wife, that he still wants to be with her. I'm sure there will always be feelings of some kind between them, as they were married at one time. He was in love with her once, and they shared (part of) their life together.. Why wouldn't he want to remember that? It's memories.. nothing more.
You shoulnd't take it as a personal insult.. He has a past, and you knew this when you married him. The pictures are nothing more.. just a way of remembering his past.
The tape issue.. now that's a little unnecessary. I could see you asking him to get rid of that. But the pictures, they're part of his past.. and you should let that issue drop.
Have a wonderful weekend!
2007-03-27 10:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by arkiegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely you have hung onto something that an EX gave you. Jewelry, letters, clothes, etc.
If so, what is the difference? I have never really understood the whole picture thing to begin with, but even more why hang onto old ones?
Are they nude pics?
If they are, scan them and post them on the internet, that will fix the whole thing.
2007-03-27 09:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by you know who 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No darling dont feel insecure! dont u forget that she was a wife some times back?? But yes talk to ur husband n say how u feel. dont keep n ur mind and suffer d pain. else u can b lead to a big missunderstandings.
2007-03-27 09:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-09-28 04:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by Nick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't hurt you. Don't you have any memories like yearbooks, pictures, letters, etc? It's probably just his way of documenting that time in his life. I wouldn't worry about it!
2007-03-27 09:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by caraanne2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a past, you can't erase it or share it or really be jealous of it. You have yours he has his. Just think if she hadn't been in his life and they hadn't married and divorced, you wouldn't have him either. It all happens for a reason
2007-03-27 09:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because we keep momentos of our past does not mean that we still have active feelings for those from that time. You kept your prom invitation right?...does that mean you still pine for your prom date?
2007-03-27 09:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by malemute1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i understand why your upset but being married to someone else and sharing your life with them for a while its hard to forget them. am i right? anyways i hope it works out for you!!
2007-03-27 09:46:22 · answer #9 · answered by lucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋