Is it true that in love there are no rules or limits.
If yes then do you think that me and my cousin being in love is it fine as long as we are happy nothing else or any laws matter..we love eachother more than anything in the world and cant live without eachother and are crazy about eachother.and the kids risk in none of your buisness thats our problem.
My country and religon allows it..and its common and people are encouraged to marry cousins in my country.and is considered to be better and a longlasting relationship if two child hood friends(cousins) marry they say the couples are always happy..and in my country family arange marriages.and my family and her family agree to marry us and we love eachother and want the same as our parents to marry us.and for kids wel get tests and stuf to be sure wer safe.being a cousin doesnt count in love.the person and the peoples love life is most important..
Do you think if love has no rules then marrying and being in love with a cousin doesnt mean coz of a few rules you stay alone and be sad all your life..i think happines and love is more important than taking notice of some man made law...GOD allows cousins to marry who are you to make rules...GOD knows more than you..he allowed it.and we dont fall in love with our sister but do with cousins coz GOD allowed and made us to be able to fall in love with em.its allowed and my love my girl and my GODs rules are more important than everything..im gona do what it takes to be with her.do you think love is more important than rules.
2007-03-27 09:33:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you've spent entirely too much time trying to convince the masses on this forum that you're opinion should be accepted in the eyes of society.
Your question isn't even relative to 99% of what you wrote, but I will say this. As far as there being no rules, its a lie. Of course there are rules, they just differ in each situation and a persons personal perspective. Do I personally condone the marriage of first cousins? No, but I don't have too.
In the end its your choice to make, and yours alone. If your society does or does not accept your choices, then it is your choice to burden the scrutiny or to end the relationship.
You've answered your own question and you're truly just seeking someone to verify your opinion so you feel better about it. Nothing wrong with that, just wont really resolve your inner turmoil. I wish you the best of luck in whatever path you take.
2007-03-27 09:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by b0red2tears 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Each person is made up of the genes from their parents. When cousins marry the genes are very similar and tend to make any inherant family trait much more pronounced or cause birth defects. It doesn't always happen but it is usually the case.
These rules of nature are man made, they are actual fact. If you and your cousin are willing to gamble on the off spring of your union being normal, that is up to the two of you.
2007-03-27 16:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the highest gift you can give anyone. Ignore all the religious stuff because it is ridiculous. The best you can give the one you love is honesty, respect, kindness and freedom to be who they are. Your lucky you found a romantic love and a great friendship and who cares what others think....much happiness to you and your Beloved.
2007-03-27 16:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'll take a stab at it....
I have no problem with it...though I was taught it is weird...but when it comes down to it... If you two are really down for each other ...F*k the world and who knows!
2007-03-27 16:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by lilboykrazie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no scientific genetic prohibition against cousins
marrying each other...1st, 2nd, 3rd & 4th cousins are all OK...
2007-03-27 16:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is absoloutly ok..we in asian culture marry cousins al the time..its not wrong at al..as long as ur happy.
2007-03-27 16:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by begum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
anything goes, kinda like a free for all
2007-03-27 16:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of questions is this?!?
u asked a question and answered yourself!!
True Love Never Dies...
2007-03-27 16:39:37 · answer #8 · answered by Farah K 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
as long as ur family is ok with it - do it.
i don't see anything wrong
2007-03-30 10:54:25 · answer #9 · answered by bre l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all is fair in love and war
2007-03-27 16:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋